Depression

FormerMember
FormerMember
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I have tried to remain positive but my husband is just not improving after 8 weeks in hospital. I am now angry, furious with everything. I wish he had never started chemo - a massive mistake as it has made everything a thousand times worse. It is unbearable seeing him so ill. I feel so useless. 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    There is no solution to how I am feeling. People have been very kind but I am deeply depressed after being Super Positive for months. It just is what it is. I will put on my cheery face tomorrow and go back to the hospital. All good. Everything is fine, fine, fine.

  • Hi

    Your reactions are totally understandable but you are far from useless. He needs more help that you can provide at the moment and he will get that in the hospital.

    I know Janice always says to me do not worry when she is in hospital - but that is not going happen is it.

    Sometimes we just need a little bit of help ourselves - and perhaps together on here we can offer that.

    <<hugs>>

    Steve

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to src60

    Very many thanks many, Steve - it is very hard and each day brings new challenges and obstacles. My husband won't be leaving the hospital for a few more weeks at least. We do a day at a time now. Hope is gone.