Hi, I am going through a really terrible time with my partner since his diagnosis and really wish I could go somewhere to talk to other people in similar positions. I don't have time to trawl through forums but I would love to feel understood as it's really lonely. I'm doing everything under the sun to help but carry overwhelming feelings of helplessness because I can't make it go away. Is there such a thing as a group for close family or partners of those going through cancer?
Hi
Sorry to hear about your partner and the effect it is having on you.
If you use our In your Area tool and enter your postcode you might find support groups near you - sometimes if is worth trying your hospital postcode too.
Don't forget you can ring our helpline here too - 0808 808 0000 if you need to talk to someone.
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Steve
When my husband was in hospital I saw posters advertising Maggies Centres. They have centres where people can meet up, not sure if they are still doing this with the covid rules but now the rules are relaxing it might be worth checking them out online to see if there is one near you.
Maggies centres are open by appointment at the moment - and I would highly recommend them - especially the one in Oxford. They also are available online. https://www.maggies.org/
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Steve
Exactly how I was feeling .
I terribly feel the need to talk to someone who is going through the same situation. I find it much easier at this stage rather than talking to friends and family or any help lines .
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
We’re here to provide physical, financial and emotional support.
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