Gutted

FormerMember
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We got bad news on Monday. Husband is not getting  anymore  treatment. They have done everything  they could.Husband has been told he only has a few months. Gutted  is a understatement. Trying  to be strong .

  • Oh Jake23 I'm so sorry to hear this. Hang in there.

    Love n hugs

    Wee Me xx

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  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Thank you so much.Struggling with this news but need to be brave for Jim x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Heartbreaking to read so many of us in such similar situations xx

  • Hello 

    I know exactly how you are feeling, my husband was given exactly the same news on 3rd March. 

    We are taking one day at a time trying to have the best of times ( a friend has lent him a motorbike to use & they have been out for a ride today ....he really enjoyed it). Friends have been so kind & thoughtful. 

    It’s such a tough stressful situation I’m trying to hold everything together & to find joy & laughter in the small everyday things & to talk things through with him & the rest of the family. 

    My thoughts are with you & please know you are not alone. 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Suzy cream cheese

    Jim has went downhill so fast.He keeps telling nurses he is worried  about me.x

  • I had that same message yesterday about my husband. I’m with you 100%. Feels like my world ended. You’re absolutely not alone. Sending a hug x

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Bim07

    Hugs to you also.xx

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    Same boat as you although my partner dosnt know and has said he dosnt want to know. Its crushing. Love to you and your partner.

  • Sending you hugs.  That must be so very heart wrenching for you.  I pray you will have the strength you need.

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember

    I am so very sorry to read this. I am new hre today, and my other half was diagnosed three weeks ago with stage 4 lung cancer and an inoperable brain tumour. I feel as you do, and very helpless.  I am also rather scared.  Less than 6 months.  I am beside myself. It is difficult trying to be sgtrong, he is trying to be strong for my sake, it is all so awful