Hi everyone I’m new to the group and hoping I can find some advice on how to cope with my partners cancer diagnosis and my mums secondary breast cancer. My mum has now decided after 2 years of secondary she is no longer having anymore treatment. Her tumour is in between her breastbone and is growing. Over the last 2 weeks we’ve just found out my partner has a Neuroblastoma in his nose which has spread into his brain. I am feeling so out of control at the minute and feel helpless I can’t fix them both. My anxiety is sky high but I’m hiding it so I can look positive The lockdown has made it worse because I can’t see my mum and resources are harder to reach. Thank you for reading if you got this far xx
Hi Lissiloo
I feel your pain. My husband has stage 4 esophageal cancer spead to his bones. Our diagnosis is very new. I thought I was coping well until this week when I've had a complete breakdown. You have had a complete blow with your mum and your partner. Your feelings are normal, its normal to feel overwhelmed with worry and anxiety. The lockdown isnt helping either. Please take care of yourself and be kind to yourself. You are suffering as well as your partner and your mum.
Sending love and a big hug xxx 
