Awake and up all night

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Are you having trouble sleeping?

Sleep problems may be caused by how you’re feeling emotionally, or as part of the side effects for cancer treatment. If you find it hard to have a good sleep, you’re not alone. The Online Community is here to support you 24/7. 

“Getting a cancer diagnosis is extremely stressful, and that brings a whole load of emotions, and lack of sleep certainly does not help. I think many of us have periods of insomnia. I experienced a long period of not sleeping. I could go off to sleep quite quickly, but after an hour I would find myself wide awake again, and would spend the rest of the night getting frustrated because I couldn't sleep."
Community member, ‘Pancreatic cancer’ group

This discussion thread is for members who:

  • Have trouble sleeping and looking for somewhere to talk
  • Would like some company and support each other during the night
  • Share some things you do that helps you get to sleep

Be a part of the supportive Community in this discussion thread.

  • Yes, it was a good day but affected  tiredness etc. I asctually slept 1.5 hours in a deep sleep! Progress!!

    Options this weekend tbc

    1. Potential theare

    Scan and pre hospital meetings

    Admin and and afternoon cup of eea

    2  Potention theatre a week on Fri

    Scan and pre hospital meetings,booked this week

    Admin and a chort trip to family 

    Treats tbc

    Mon to Thirs...being normal and seeing friends wot lunch!!

    What will ve will be.

    I llikely to 8se compunication for a while

  • Hi Alex Blush Well whatever happens with any potential surgery, I'm hoping only for the best outcome my lovely. 

    In the meantime, do all the good things you've got lined up - meeting up with family and friends and enjoying eating out. Doing normal, enjoyable persuits is the way forward to take your mind away from the medical stuff.

    Well done you for managing a short, but deep sleep - every little helps! Just try to relax, think nice thoughts and you might find yourself drifting off. Here's hoping sweetheart xxx

  • Hi,Gill H

    Many thanks for this. Better set of sleep , deep.1.5 hrs is an improvement.

    I try to  listened to gentle music.

    Today is the day MRA scan.

    I will finding out later today if surgery is on this Friday.

    If yes, one sequence with happen. I use technology to help.

    My language is already impacted and is likely to deteriorate worse than while.

    If not, we have a plan to go to family in London for the weekend. It just is a more ordered way to do it!

    Have a good day.

  • Good morning Alex Sun with face and good luck with the scan today and all follow up results.

    Fingers crossed you'll be seeing your family in London this weekend, but take good care of yourself whichever way things pan out.

    Sending you big hugs sweetheart xxx

  • seems the last time and only time somebody has responded was 8 months ago. Is it not a popular forum ? Have people abandoned it ?

  • I managed to get my date sort upside down. Sorry

  • Evening allasada and a warm welcome to our group.

    When I read your first post I did think, eh? but your second explained it ThumbsupHow are you doing sweetie? Hopefully ok but maybe anxious about something. We're here if that's the case but I'll have to go awol for a while, as this is when I do my OH's care. Others might be still about but I'll be back later if you'd like a chat xxx

  • Hi. I'm new here. What a good idea for a group. I had a breast biopsy last week and had it was confirmed as cancer today. I'm still waiting for my treatment plan appointment. 

    I've hardly slept this week and I'm worse tonight. Exhausted but no chance of sleeping.  My head is full of thoughts and questions and I can't stop myself from constant googling which isn't helping. 

    My stomach feels like there's a 1000 butterflies in there so not eating properly either as I feel so sick. 

  • I had DCIs 3 years ago at 37 and had a double mastectomy. I’ve now found 2 lumps in my armpit. Very small but I feel like I’m going mad. Has anyone had this?

  • Hi Wombz and a very warm welcome to our group, although I'm not surprised you're having trouble sleeping, what with the news you got today. Actually, yesterday now but still an awful lot to take in my lovely.

    I'm pretty certain that once you do get your treatment plan things will start to even out, as you'll know much more then and start to get back some control. That will surely help with your sleep and eating too, as the last thing you need is to go down the rattle. I hope you've got support on the home front from loved ones, as they should be able to help you through the difficult early stage after your diagnosis. Look for extra support and advice from the lovely ladies on the breast cancer forum too.

    Drop in here anytime of the day or night though, as you'll usually find a night owl or two perching about. Sending you all the very best for when the appointments start coming in and some big hugs too xxx