My husband died in my arms on the 2nd May (2009) - what happens now?

Thinking about you today Gayle  (((((((((hugs))))))))))

Dear Lynne,

thanks so much for the invite- the warmth & kindness on this forum is just quite amazing. I suppose I read it from the sidelines for 2 reasons - first, I haven't lost a husband and second, because everyone seems to know each other really well, so I didn't want to be the newbie encrouching on that. All that I read on this forum rings true - it's awful to think of so many people having to go through such pain & sadness. Since the death of my wonderful fiance, I feel a bigger loss with every passing day. I feel like a part of me died on that day & life will never be the same again - how can it?  

Take care everyone & best wishes always.

PP

Gayle, I have been thinking about you constanlty and hoping that you are findinbg the strength to carry you through this day.  I have no words of wisdom because there is nothing I can say to make things better. I just hope that you take comfort from the love and support which emminates from this thread. You are such a special young lady and show strength far beyond my own.  I hope that you soon find some peace in your life.

Love and angel hugs to you and the boys x x x Patricia x x x

Dear gayle

Thinking of you and those lovely boys, and sending you hugs today.

Sue xx

Dear PP you have lost a very special person. You  should not  feel that you cannot post on here. We embrace everyone who visits. You are hurting just like we are.  You are feeling lost, lonely, abandoned. Life will never be the same that is true. How can it be? Be kind to yourself and give yourself time to grieve. Remeber though ta there is no timne scale to this. Each one of us as individuals will grieve in our own way. I am now into my second year and amazingly finding things very difficult at the moment. It is very confusing. Anyway PP you take care of yourself. Climb into the middle of the Penguin huddle and feel the warmth and love.

Love and angel hugs x x x Patricia x x x

Sue, how do you do it? A picture says so much and you ALWAYS find the right picture to say just what you want. Well done you. x x

Love and angel hugs x x x Patricia x x x

Dearest Patricia,

you were there for me all those weeks ago when I joined this site & for that I thank you.

Thanks again for your continued warmth & kindness.

PP

Sue that is beautiful, not only do you find the right pictures but you capture the feeling exactly.  xxxxxxx

Patricia sending you a big hug and gently but firmly pushing you into the middle of the huddle for a wee while. xxxxx

AhhSue you've done it again , was holding it together ok and then i see that pic , oh my goodness .. xxxx Gayle i know you've had a tough time today hun and we all are feeling it for you , i can't wait to give you a proper hug (((hug))) PP just because you wasn't married it doesn't mean your not a widow , to lose your soul mate is enough hun, please keep posting , you'll soon get to know us all xx Well i've not been in long so i'm going to eat a horse (sorry Rosemary and come back) Take care all xxxxxxxxxxx

Sorry I upset you, hun - i ust thought it was particularly appropriate for gayle and the boys xx