My husband died in my arms on the 2nd May (2009) - what happens now?

Patricia, apart from July when I will be away, you are very welcome here

Oh my word Bren I am joking. I wouldn't dream of imposing mysself on anyone.

I think it would be a pleasure to have you, you would never be an imposition

Sorry not much good tonight (again) it's Steve's birthday tomorrow, Sam is away at her house, Daniel working and it's all a little too much.  I'm going to sit on the ledge with a large Baileys, actually go out there and think of you all crowded round beside me and raise a glass to him in his garden, along with all of your lovely men and the lovely ladies that have been lost too.  Love you all, xxxxxxx

hang on tightly, rosemary - we're all beside you on the ledge

xxx

Big hugs Rosemary

Hang on we are all with you. Hugs xxx

We're all there with you Rosemary.  I will raise a bailey's to Steve as well tonight.  Sending you lots of ((((((hugs)))))).  Ailsa xxx

Alfie it is good to hear from you.  Enjoy your holiday and I hope it gives you a rest.  Keep your laptop handy and keep in touch.  We are all here if you need an ear at any time.  I find being busy gets me through just as Gayle says.  I'm probably a little too busy but I feel sure I will slow down when the time is right.  Just make sure you look after yourself.

How are you this evening Lynne?  You sound very busy with the charity night.  I'm really looking forward to it and it is good you have something good to keep you busy.  Are you making progress with the house?  It is very difficult concentrating on everything - I keep forgetting things.

Looks like I might ned to do a few short posts as I still have a house full & I am being called.  Will be back soon.  Take care.  Ailsa xxx

Hi all

Rosemary, I have just picked up 'blankie' and my glass to come out and join you and give you a hug darling (((( )))).  We will raise a glass to all of our lovely chaps and chapesses and sit in quiet contemplation.  xxxx

Judi xx