Hugs

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Just sending hugs and love to everyone here. I know we miss them every minute of every day, but these 'special' days make the loss feel that much harder to bear. Being part of a couple gives you something so comforting, I felt safe and loved. Now I feel so isolated and scared. Some people are kind, others less so. People think if they ignore your grief you can ignore it too. Anyway, on this day that's about love, let's remember our lost loved ones and recall all the wonderful memories, and cry if that's what it takes to get through. Heart

  • Thanks spirit for rhe hug and one coming right back.

    . We werent people who did anything special today, Tony hated the commercialisation, but its hard to miss all the stuff in the shops, and on the radio this morning. Yes, isolated and often scared, completely agree.

    Ive been quite teary this week. Yesterday i went to our local bereavement group, and sobbed through most of it. The volunteers who run it are lovely, very astute when someone has a wobble, but these episodes are just so exhausting. 

  • I've had a bad week too. I've decided to donate the car to a charity, as I don't drive (big regret now) and they were meant to come Wed but didn't turn up. It took a lot to get myself geared up to see it go, now I have to wait til next week. Crying is exhausting, I still find myself sobbing most days. I went out last night, to a quiz night, but it was hard staying cheerful and I think it's just too soon to pretend to be normal. This is the only place I feel understood, thank goodness for all the people here.