Just sending hugs and love to everyone here. I know we miss them every minute of every day, but these 'special' days make the loss feel that much harder to bear. Being part of a couple gives you something so comforting, I felt safe and loved. Now I feel so isolated and scared. Some people are kind, others less so. People think if they ignore your grief you can ignore it too. Anyway, on this day that's about love, let's remember our lost loved ones and recall all the wonderful memories, and cry if that's what it takes to get through. 
I have had it happen, even with previous ‘close’ friend’s who can’t talk about my husband. Some of them, were our friend’s for over 25 years. They either can’t handle it, or genuinely don’t care. Others have been amazing. That’s why Ghostlovescene mentioned The Pariah Club. 
about six months ago. This is where we don’t seem to exist anymore. Luckily, we have found support here. Kate. xxx
