You would have thought that considering people go through this every day in day out, that by now the sadmin, accounts and probate would have been simplified for people in horrific grief.
”They” must now by now how destroyed we are.
How hard it is for us to function.
How hard it is to understand in our fuzzy heads.
We don’t want our loved one’s names to be obliterated so quickly and definitively.
Why add such awful stress to us by freezing accounts paying bills and mortgages.
Why make probate so difficult at a time when we are dealing with our loss.
The letters that start “we are sorry for the loss of Mr Thomas Valen”.
His name is Valen Thomas you idiots, have the decency to get it right!.
And follow with a but can you…….
The offhand “How are you doing? Have you heard about our bereavement services”.
Do “they” think we get over this as quickly as if we had lost a hamster?
I want to campaign to make everything easier for us.
But don’t now where to start as so much needs to change.
For me I guess it’s the whole minefield of probate.
Sending hugs to all x
