Hi, it's going to be 3 months on Friday, 13 weeks on Saturday. Since I lost my everything Sue. I have gone through Easter without seeing or talking to anyone. The last time I spoke to somebody was my counsellor on Thursday. I've had a couple of WhatsApp messages.
I just find it hard because we were always there when people needed us and now I have not seen anyone family or friends since Sue's funeral in February. I know I live a long way away. I see what you lot are doing and I am happy for you. I just don't seem to have the energy or umph at the moment. I am just doing basic house work. Making my self go to the bereavement coffee again this morning, I just hope it's better then last time.
Sorry for being down beat, like the rest of you missing my soul mate and finding it harder everyday. Take care and look after yourselves.
Hi there, you don’t need to apologise for feeling bereft. We all understand. I am nine months in, and can assure that I have had periods of time when I could barely function. At times, we need to be alone. At other times we need to have the support of friends/family. Are there any bereavement walks you could join via a hospice ? I go once a month on a country walk via St Barnabas. Do you have a local pub ? Can you get books out from the library ? I know it is like “Walking through treacle”, but getting out sometimes can help. Sending you hugs. Kate. Xxx
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