I lost my mum yesterday, me and my brother were with her for her last breathe.
I don't know how to cope without her, she's always been there, whether it's in person or on the phone and now she's gone.
I helped care for for 9 months before her last stay in hospital and I know I did what I could but what if I missed something and I didn't do enough??
Anyone had the same experience if so how are you coping ???
I know what you mean. I looked after my dad at home until a week before he died. And I sadly missed the moment he died. I regret that. And am always wondering if the decisions that were made for him were the right ones. He suffered a lot in the last weeks, I think. And I can’t bear the fact that I won’t see him or hear him again. I’d love to think he is still with us somehow. Hugs. x
I lost my wife of 46 years last week funeral next week I don’t see how I’m going to cope without her
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