I lost my fiancé 2 weeks ago, She was 45 years old, diagnosed with kidney cancer on 18th December, operated and removed on 18th Jan, but sadly it had spread to her lungs, throat and towards her heart at a shocking rate and she passed on 10th March after 2 weeks in hospital.. struggling to cope on my own without her and feel so lonely all the time!!!
just wanted to reach out and see how people cope when you’re loved one is taken away so quickly!!! We had so many plans and a wedding to arrange and it’s all gone!!
just feel so lost without her
Hello Jakal
Welcome to the forum, this is a safe place to share your thoughts, feelings and to rant should you wish too.
I am so very sorry to read that even after having surgery to remove the kidney cancer, your dear fiancé experienced such a rapid spread of the cancer and that after fighting so hard she passed on after two weeks in hospital.
(((Hugs)) Jakal, I fully acknowledge how lost you must feel without her,
We all know life goes on, in a very different way to that which we imagined that it would be, but that doesn't take away the pain, and I send my sincere condolences for the loss of you lovely fiancé
Macmillan offer a wealth of information HERE which may give you some advice or guidance, and should you feel like sharing more with us on the forum, we are here for you
Sending strength to you at this extremely difficult time
Lowe'
