Well, it's been 2 months since we got dad's diagnosis and so much has happened in that time.
Things have been incredibly confusing and manic over the last 2 months, Dad's consultant decided it would be worth performing the cystectomy operation as although the cancer would still be in his chest, chemo was slowing the growth down and therefore the op would give him the chance of years rather than months. I had…
So a lot has happened over the last few weeks, but it's all been overshadowed by the events of last Thursday.
Dad got his results form his scan, they have told him that his cancer is terminal. they are going to do 3 more cycles of chemo as it had a small effect and may help to give him more time but they will never be able to cure it, it's in his bladder, prostrate and chest.
I asked a friend who had gone with…
Ok, so firstly i apologise because this is just me venting and i'm not sure i really have the right too.........
Yesterday i called my mum to see how everyone was and she sounded really funny on the phone, but i thought she may have been tired or something, well today my brother emailed me to ask if i knew that Dad had stopped taking all his medication...every single bit of it.
I was chatting to mum the other day…
Wow...i thought i'd be able to spend more time on here, update this a little more often but things have just been so hectic. My fiance and i pulled our wedding forward to the 11th September due to dad's cancer and it's taking up so much of my time, trying to get the bridesmaids sorted and all the little things that i never thought of as being involved in a wedding...silly things such as tablecloths to fit our…
Hi guys,
I'm new to the site and thought that writing the blog may help me to sort out some of the feelings i have these days.....you see my dad has been diagnosed with bladder cancer, it probably sounds strange to people but i can't really remember when it became an official diagnosis, it feels like a lifetime ago when in reality it's only a couple of months, i apologise for the long post but there's a lot of background…
