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"I became a stage 4 lung cancer patient from an ordinary man overnight." - James shares his story

James and his wife Helen, talk in their Mother Tongue Cantonese to share some of the cultural stigmas and issues they faced when James was diagnosed with lung cancer. This video is part of Macmillan’s mother tongue project. (4 minutes and 38 seconds). We hope to feature different lived experiences here on the Online Community to represent different ethnic cultures and communities, so nobody feels they are facing cancer alone. Please see an English transcript written below. There are also English subtitles available when watching the video. For additional support information in other languages, scroll to the end of this blog page. Transcript James: Before I was diagnosed with lung cancer, I had no idea that cancers can actually be treatable. From my own experience, I learned…

Megan- Online Community Team
Hair Loss - Information and Guidance

Image: Landscape of Yorkshire moors with dark clouds sitting over a valley on a spring day. On the Community team we often ask for your input or feedback, we want to make sure we’re listening to our members. In a recent newsletter we asked for you to get in touch with the topics you would like to see us write about. In today’s Community News Blog, we’re talking about a topic you asked for - hair loss. We know from many of our members’ comments that hair loss can be difficult to deal with, both physically and emotionally. "The hair loss was something I was absolutely dreading and absolutely heartbroken about." , Breast cancer forum "Main one for me is hairloss Hair loss was awful but I've learned to accept myself with short hair now. Take each day at a time." , Breast cancer forum …

Tom C - Online Community team
'I do find it helps to go outside and just breathe in the fresh air for a minute or two' - (Denby) Wellbeing roundup: January

January can be a bit of an odd month, both full of the promise of a new year and a fresh start but also a time where the mornings and evenings are dark, the weather chilly and the routines of the pre-holiday season hard to settle back into. To help us all through the next few weeks, we have put together some amazing wellbeing tips and expressive thoughts that we have collected from the Community. So why not put the kettle on, settle down on the sofa and take a moment to look through our favourite wellbeing tips of the moment? 'I do find it helps to go outside and just breathe in the fresh air for a minute or two - especially when tearful.' - Denby 'Never give up! Look at all the options open to you and use the wonderful NHS and Macmillan staff for advice and support.' – 'I do know that…

Former Member
November is lung cancer awareness month - 'we're all here to support each other'

November is Lung Cancer Awareness month. When you or your loved one has lung cancer, it's important you can find the right emotional support. In this Community News blog, we'll be highlighting the support shared in the Community's lung cancer forum and sharing some other ways you can find help. The Online Community's lung cancer forum is an online support group. It's open 24 hours a day, 7 days a week and you can find support from people who understand. Because they've been there themselves. You might be looking for tips to help you get the best from your cancer nurse and healthcare team or ideas around coping with side effects and improving quality of life. You might just need to talk. Whatever support you're looking for, the lung cancer forum is here for you. “We are all here to support…

Steph - Online Community Team
Information overload? We're here to help

Trusted information from day one When you or your loved one is diagnosed with cancer, it can feel like the whole world has turned upside down. You may feel upset, angry, sad, worried or simply numb. “Still trying to take it all in! As I had been expecting to be told I had kidney stones.” Community member , ‘ Bladder cancer ’ forum “I was told I had bowel cancer and my world fell apart.” Community member , ‘Bowel (colon and rectal) cancer ’ forum “Hi, I was diagnosed with Vulval cancer last week…I am in total limbo and do not know how I am supposed to be feeling ” Community member , ‘ Vulva cancer ’ forum As well as being worried about your health, or the health of your loved one , you may find your head is full of lots of different questions. ‘What will treatment be like?’ ‘How will…

Former Member
Macmillan Community Breakfast with Chef & Brewer

We are delighted to share with you all a lovely offer from Chef & Brewer pubs this December. They are offering a free breakfast for you and a plus one – as we know turning up to things on your own can be daunting. There are 10 places per every Chef & Brewer site. This is a wonderful chance to connect with others, share stories, and enjoy a relaxed festive morning together. Chef & Brewer are part of the Greene King group, you can read more about the partnership with Macmillan here. The sign up is really simple: Visit the Chef and Brewer website and enter your postcode to find your local pub and select ‘Book a Table’ Choose Friday 5 December at 10:30am for your reservation (this is the only day and time the offer is available) Set the number of Adults to ‘1’ or ‘2’ (if bringing…

Megan- Online Community Team
Living with cancer and lymphoedema

We recently published the Life after cancer: dealing with health conditions after cancer blog. Sharing experiences from our forums and guidance for adjusting to a ‘new normal’ after cancer. But what if you are living with cancer alongside health conditions such as lymphoedema? This blog features lived experiences and support information to help you manage your lymphoedema. Living with cancer alongside other health conditions can be difficult when you are already dealing with the emotional effects of cancer. Speaking to your healthcare team for advice and talking to others with similar experiences can help you find coping strategies that work for you. Lymphoedema is a condition that many people live with after cancer treatment. It can develop months or even years after cancer treatment, and…

Megan- Online Community Team
“When I am up at 'silly o'clock' I will try to remember this thread”

This week, the Awake and up all night discussion in the cancer chat forum reached a one-year milestone. For a whole year, people have found support from posting in the discussion thread and reading the ongoing conversations. Sleep problems may be caused by how you’re feeling emotionally, or as part of the side effects of cancer treatment. If you find it hard to get a good sleep, you’re not alone. The Online Community is here to support you 24/7. The Awake and up all night discussion thread was created with the aim of being a dedicated space for people to access peer support when experiencing sleep issues. “What a great idea for a thread. I often had trouble falling asleep, especially when I had been diagnosed but was waiting results, my brain was in worry overdrive.” Community member, Awake…

Megan- Online Community Team
The Cancer Experience Forums – finding peer support to match your situation

What’s in a name? The meaning of ‘Cancer Experiences’ might not be as obvious as ‘Cancer Types’, but it’s a good way of summarising the wide variety of support groups you can find in this section. While the Cancer Types section helps members with a similar diagnosis to find and support one another, the groups in the Cancer Experiences section gathers people around the various situations and circumstances they might encounter when cancer impacts the life of themselves or a loved one. When you visit the Cancer Experiences section, you will find all of the support groups listed in alphabetical order. To help you discover which groups might be most relevant to you, this blog aims to organise the different support groups into a few common categories for you to browse. New members and general…

Matthew - Online Community Team
Cancer & me 35 years on - Hong Kong and Back to reality

Photo of the ruins of St. Paul's in Macau, China taken by Willo. We are back today with the next instalment of Willo’s blog series ‘Cancer & me 35 years on’. Willo is a member of our Community who was diagnosed with Anal cancer in 1986 while living in Zambia and has been sharing her experience of living through and beyond cancer, as well as her amazing artwork and photographs, in her blog series with us since last summer. So far Willo has covered her experience of moving back to England for treatment, her Abdominoperineal Resection , going back to art school post-surgery and the amazing friends and family that helped her through. In today’s blog we are back with Willo today to hear about her experience of traveling to Hong Kong in 1990 during a difficult time for her health. “After the…

Former Member
Getting support when living alone with cancer

Having a cancer diagnosis can affect every aspect of someone’s life. Living alone with cancer leaves many people with added obstacles to getting the support they need. Whether this is physical support and care, to help with daily tasks, or emotional support and guidance through the most challenging of times. The Online Community is here for anyone affected by cancer to find support from people who understand. Recently, we asked members of the Community about their experiences of living alone with cancer , the challenges they face and how they have coped or adapted to these challenges. This blog brings together what they have shared with some added information that we hope you find useful. Emotional effects of living alone with cancer Members spoke about the emotional challenges faced…

Wayne - Online Community Team
Kidney Cancer Support

We know how important support groups can be after a cancer diagnosis. For kidney (or renal) cancer patients and loves ones alike, it’s important you have somewhere to reach out for support and connection. Today we’re catching up with our Kidney cancer forum. Whether it’s you or a loved one with a renal cancer (or any other form of kidney cancer) diagnosis, there is always somewhere to reach out for support. There are different types of kidney cancer. Whilst most kidney cancer diagnoses are renal cell carcinoma, we appreciate it is not always the case and our kidney cancer forum is for all cancer diagnoses related to the kidneys. In today’s Community News Blog we’re going to highlight some recent conversations from the forum. We’ll also talk about the kind of support you are likely to find…

Tom C - Online Community team