I wasn't worried and now I am :-(

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Hello all,

I'm new here posting although I have been reading posts for a couple of weeks. 

I have Stage 1/ Grade 1a cancer and have been pretty upbeat about it all until my pre op phone call today with the anaesthetist. It was the first time that anyone mentioned the possibility of an open op and that now seems like a more likely option for me. I had been banking on a laparoscopic surgery if only for the quicker recovery time. Im disabled and my mobility isnt great and it just seemed like i could cope more easily with that style of surgery.

Now Im faced with the alternative and finding it hard to find any positive vibes at all. That's so not like me. 

So I thought it was time I joined, introduced myself and  hopefully hear that the open surgery is not the big bad monster I fear.

  • Hi FunkyNana and welcome to the group. Well done for being brave enough to post. I’m obese but my BMI is 35 so a bit less than yours, I feel for you as I hear you that it’s unsettled you. I had a laparoscopic hysterectomy in January. I don’t know if it’s of any comfort but I had a c section many years ago, and my recovery from that wasn’t bad at all. If that’s what you have to have, you will be okay. It would likely mean a slightly longer stay in hospital but you’d be all right. Plus it’s not definite that you’d have open, so I’d suggest you try and prepare for the worst but hope for the best. 

  • Thank you for you r kind words. I just want it done now lol