I've my pre op app tomorrow and I cant get myself to settle at all. I know ive used this page quite a bit the last 2 wks its been the one thing keeping me together. I know going into the app now my mri was clear and its just the biopsy shows cancer so at this moment I am stage 1a. Hopefully the fact the mri was clear means it will stay that way. I tend not to ask a lot of questions as i have quite a negative imagination I spoke to some family members now to tell them and some have been great some not I had one today tell me il never have a days peace again I will look over my shoulder the rest of my life now. It will pop up every few yrs somewhere I had to stop them. I do understand in life we can not ever know the future but it has hit a nerve I had got myself settled into believing I could have at least a fair few yrs. This isnt a cruel person they lost the run of themselves in shock and have apologised but its left me sick all eve.
Thankyou all it was not really needed 
i am ok today just had my pre op they are v devoted to their jobs and v positive for my outcome so im going with their opinions and not some of my family 
Hi Ma80
I am sorry that you have had such a negative reaction from one family member.
How are you feeling today?
Do give the Support Line a call if it would help to talk it through.
Jane
