Thyroidectomy and neck dissection

Hi Cassey 

Sorry you’re having a rough time - I know how you’re feeling and so will many others on the forum. I had my first surgery just over a year ago, it was three days after my dad had suddenly died. Since then I had a cancer diagnosis, further surgery and RAI. Physically I think I’m ok, emotionally I’m all over the place - sometimes I feel ok and then, usually for no reason, I can feel anxious and overwhelmed. It’s very early days for you, you are still recovering from surgery and coming to terms with lots. Christmas is a difficult time with high expectations and a hope that everyone will be super happy but that just isn’t the case for many people. Allow yourself the Christmas you want, all the people that love you will understand and just want the best for you. Last Christmas for me was very muted and this year will be also. MacMillan offer counselling sessions which I found very useful, there’s lots of help available when you’re ready to ask for it. Well done for reaching out, the first message is never easy and sending you a big hug.