Hello
I Am due to have my surgery on the 9th December and honestly petrified. I am asking for help and tips to try and help me through this transition.
I have been stage 4 Gastric cancer for 6 months - I started the chemo at Christy Manchester the tumour shrunk from 10.5cm to 3cm but they still wouldn’t operate.!!!!!!
After lots of Research I managed to contact Dr Asif Choudry from The Royal Marsden Hospital in Chelsea - He agreed to help me and after zillions of tests and his liasing with Christies
Any advice - any tips - any help WOULD BE GREATLY APPRECIATED️
Good morning. Firstly welcome to this Forum where you will get much support.
I had my total gastrectomy in June 2025. I had robotic gastrectomy so healing was very fast with no pain. I will be honest and say the first few months are very difficult, not with pain but eating/drinking. I also felt very weak and couldn't stand up or walk for long. I have now lost over 3 stone. I was a size 14 and now a size 8. I had a severe thirst that no juice would quash. I felt tired so please rest. Everyone is totally different so this is my experience only. Eat small portions and you will likely go off some foods. I don't really like sweet foods now or crisps. I was sick a few times due to "sweet foods" so your body will begin to tell you what it likes and does not. Now the POSITIVE news. 5 months down the line and I feel much better and my portion size is increasing. I can tolerate certain sweet food now etc. I enjoy a tipple of "tawny port", I feel hungry most of the time and can eat more or less what I liked to eat before. The weakness and tiredness has gone. The only issue I have is my weight. I need to speak with the Dietician to start protein supplements which I don't really enjoy. You will get through this. I was very fortunate and did not need chemo so sorry you are having to go through this. It is best to try and eat every couple of hours which I find quite stressful as always "clock watching". I also find it hard thinking of what to eat for snacks etc. You will get through this and thinking of you. I hope this helps. Any questions please get in touch. Shirley

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