Hi everyone.
reaching out as I really need some support.
i was initially diagnosed with appendix cancer in 2016. I went 9 years without any reoccurrence but last year was diagnosed with Pseudomyxoma.
Had surgery in Basingstoke which included a full hysterectomy (I had a mass on my right ovary minimum 30x20cm). Upper and lower omentum removal and belly button removed. The disease was scraped from my diaphragm, pelvis and my spleen. Had the chemo wash etc. that was October 2025.
reoccurance diagnosis in May this year and currently going through chemo. It’s so friggin tough. The thought of this for the rest of my life frightens me. I am exhausted, snappy and a nightmare to be around. It’s starting to cost me my 20 year relationship and I feel like there’s nothing I can do.
does anyone have any advice please? How can I stop the snapping and bad attitude? I’ve been on hrt since my op so it isn’t a case of I need that.
thank you

Hi....I am a Christie Manchester patient. My GP prescribed Sertraline (it's an SSRI) ...I have found it has really helped me, lifted my mood, and has helped me cope. I have a recurrence (Dec 2023) and have been having chemo since then.
If you are in the UK, you may want to join the Pseudomyxoma Survivor private FB support group
Hi. I’m on propranolol twice a day. I really don’t want to go back down the route of antidepressants. It took me years to get off them but understand it may be my only option right now.
hows your chemo going? I’m getting cycle 6 on Monday and I’m fed up already.
Hi there
I am on FOLFIRI and had my 54th cycle. Am doing ok, have got a regular 'new normal' and make the best of my good days and roll with the bad ones (usually fatigue).
Sertraline is an SSRI.....it's not addictive and is not like the old fashioned antidepressants. It was my GP who prescribed Sertraline as our post operative 'mood' can be a bit like PTSD. They have really helped me keep a 'normal' mood.
Excuse my french....Bllks!
First of all FOLFOX is a beast so good for you doing that many cycles!
I have a recurrence around my small bowel.....I had my 54th cycle of FOLFIRI today....and according to my Oncologist, disease is stable.
Please join the Pseudomyxoma Survivor FB group......it's a really positive group with lots of great survivor stories.....
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