Not sure if I am duplicating this on another part of the site, but my husband (77) was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer about a year ago. He has multiple bone mets throughout the skeleton and whilst initially on Firmagon (hormone therapy), he has changed to Prostap as he had too much pain from the first.
He has bladder incontinence which is manageable by wearing pads but has been having often uncontrollable diarrhea every day for nearly four months. He has had an endoscopy and a colonoscopy so far and oncology say nothing to do with the cancer. He recently had an MRI to rule out spinal compression and a contrast ct scan. Nothing sinister found that they didn't already know.
However, my biggest worry is that he can no longer can eat. I have tried everything, obviously including his favourite foods. He can manage sweet things like fruit, yoghurt and soft deserts but he just cannot mange more than a couple of mouthfuls of any savoury food and is having Energy drinks supplied by the doctor.
My questions are, do other sufferers have bad diarrhea and is total lack of appetite and inability to eat normal. He is going downhill so fast and also getting dehydrated too. I am at my wits end trying to help him.
Gina, Ulls,
Even I didn't know all of that.
I'm in the middle of crying myself laughing at your reply. It's brilliant!!
South Shields used to be ok in the 1980's for drinking on a Saturday night, always missed last orders as the last ferry to North Shields was at 22:30pm.
Couldn't risk getting stuck there, taxis cost loads & you had to pay to come through the Tyne Tunnel.
There was a little corner shop there used to make their own Samosas. Very good.
In the past 10 years or so we've seen some good free concerts there, Tony Hadley, Roland Gift (from Fine Young Cannibals). UB40 were ok, original musicians but the singer was a poor copy of Ali Campbell (it was one of his brothers, the one with no talent).
Steve (SteveCam)
Ulls,
With us moving to Burradon, they talk funny there, as for Blyth and Ashington, horrible accents.
I was brought up in Wallsend, then in. Heaton. Born in Wiltshire due to my dad being in the RAF.
My partner, she was born and bred in Sunderland, still comes out with some funny words.
Steve (SteveCam)
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