Not eating

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Not sure if I am duplicating this on another part of the site, but  my husband (77) was diagnosed with advanced prostate cancer about a year ago.  He has multiple bone mets throughout the skeleton and whilst initially on Firmagon (hormone therapy), he has changed to Prostap as he had too much pain from the first. 

He has bladder incontinence which is manageable by wearing pads but has been having often uncontrollable diarrhea every day for nearly four months.  He has had an endoscopy and a colonoscopy so far and oncology say nothing to do with the cancer.  He recently had an MRI to rule out spinal compression and a contrast ct scan.  Nothing sinister found that they didn't already know.

However, my biggest worry is that he can no longer can eat.  I have tried everything, obviously including his favourite foods.  He can manage sweet things like fruit, yoghurt and soft deserts but he just cannot mange more than a couple of mouthfuls of any savoury food and is having Energy drinks supplied by the doctor.

My questions are, do other sufferers have bad diarrhea and is total lack of appetite and inability to eat normal.  He is going downhill so fast and also getting dehydrated too. I am at my wits end trying to help him.

  • Ah, didn't see that.  Born in South Shields???????? 

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  • Well done south shields in the last century there was a very large population of Arabs living there, smoggy are Middlesbrough 

  • I actually didn't know that, I just Googled it Grinning. Wonder why so many Arabs then. Did they get lost looking for somewhere nice to live then GrinningSweat smileLaughing. Only kidding, never been to South Shields. 

  • My grandmother was 'Nanna', so was my mum to my girls and me to theirs. The grandfathers are always called Granda but some people don't understand that and say it should be Grandad. Is this a Geordie thing do you think?

    Gina

  • It's got a good beach, expensive fun fair, puts on good music festivals during school holidays, other wise not much else.

  • Gina, Ulls,

    Even I didn't know all of that.

    I'm in the middle of crying myself laughing at your reply.  It's brilliant!!

    South Shields used to be ok in the 1980's for drinking on a Saturday night, always missed last orders as the last ferry to North Shields was at 22:30pm.

    Couldn't risk getting stuck there, taxis cost loads & you had to pay to come through the Tyne Tunnel.

    There was a little corner shop there used to make their own Samosas.  Very good.

    In the past 10 years or so we've seen some good free concerts there, Tony Hadley, Roland Gift (from Fine Young Cannibals). UB40 were ok, original musicians but the singer was a poor copy of Ali Campbell (it was one of his brothers, the one with no talent).

    Steve (SteveCam)

  • Ulls,I never knew about the Arab bit.

    Steve (SteveCam)

  • Gina, I don't know, all I know is that it was my Nana and Granda.

    Someone I went to school with had Grandma and Grandpa.

    Strange... Are you a Nana, Granny or a Grandmama?

    Steve (SteveCam)

  • We get grandma and grandar, but as I not a geordie myself, but have ancestors via my mam,s side, can't really answer that, proberbly Steve's domain, the quaint thing about the northeast is that the accents and words change every few miles.

  • Ulls,

    With us moving to Burradon, they talk funny there, as for Blyth and Ashington, horrible accents.

    I was brought up in Wallsend, then in. Heaton.  Born in Wiltshire due to my dad being in the RAF.

    My partner, she was born and bred in Sunderland, still comes out with some funny words.

    Steve (SteveCam)