My partner and I saw our GP this afternoon; he told us that the MRI showed spread to the bones (which we already knew in general terms from what the doctor doing his biopsy said last week). The GP was very reassuring, suggested only a few lesions in his spine. He asked if my partner wanted to see the report; he didn't, but I said I'd like a copy. So, my situation now is that I read the report, and the GP was not being entirely truthful (though he had only just read it himself and had to think on the hoof) - there is quite extensive spread in his spine and pelvis. So now I know that, but my partner doesn't, and is feeling relieved at how the appointment went. I don't want to tell him, but it hurts to see him over-optimistic....and although he's bound to find out at the follow-up appointment at the hospital next week, will he be angry with me for not telling him? Angry with the GP for not telling him? I'm angry with the GP - but he was probably trying not to worry my partner more than he had to (or too cowardly to tell him?). I wish I hadn't read the damn thing either! One good thing is that at least my partner will feel relatively cheerful between now and the follow-up - but how disappointed will he be when we get there?! I've pretty much decided not to tell him...I just hope I can cope with keeping it to myself for a week.
