Hi all , I’m feeling so devastated since my dad was informed his cancer has spread to his spine .seeing him suffering kills me.
he is currently under urology but has now been referred to oncology. He has since had a fall and had a week long admission in hospital. But since coming home I can see he has deteriorated and can hardly walk or move due to severe pain .
i just hope oncology will hurry up and get him in for some sort of treatment, he isn’t well and may only be offered radiotherapy, but I’m just clinging onto hope .
Im an only child and my dad is my hero and best friend , I cry most days , it’s when I get home when I’ve been with him all day . My mum tries her best , but is in complete denial that he is terminal . He is only 68 and is no age at all to be suffering like this .
is anyone else going through this ?
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