Making the treatment choice is hard

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Hi

I have recently see the surgeon who advised me that I would have to lose 15 off my BMI and that radiotherapy would be the better option.

I then spoke with the oncologist who said I should try and lose the weight and go for surgery.He said I would need 3 months of hormone therapy before radiotherapy if I chose that route.

Well im on a nhs weight loss programme but fast loss is not the goal!

I am considering asking doctor for monjaro to lose the weight quicker but I know it effects cancer treatments.

I am not sure who to speak to first .

I felt totally shocked that after surgeon said radiotherapy that oncologist left me hanging..

In all honesty I has decided radiotherapy was my first choice and expected that to be suggested.

  • Hi BP55

    You don't give any stats so difficult to comment but remember surgeons will normally try and pressure you to have surgery although looks like the oncologist has suggested surgery option.

    What is the reason he is saying RT not best option.

    Regards 

    Steve 

  • Hi Steve

    The stats T3a. G3+4  8mm length

    11 /23 cores

    Locally advanced

    He didn't say that outright but was just the way he saying about the weight loss.

    His last line of letter does just ask me to decide which route.

    Thanks

    Chris

  • Just my  opinion but I have always reckoned once just escaped the gland then could well be better off with HT and RT.

    To start on HT soon to stop it in an it's tracks

    before Radiotherapy starts.

    Steve 

  • Hello  

    A warm welcome to the group, although I am so sorry to find you joining us. 

    I am a T3a (T3aN0M0) and wasn't given the choice of surgery - my PSA was 182 so my team assumed it had spread and I was placed on HT from day 1 (you can read my journey bu clicking on my name or avatar).

    Nearly 5 years down the line I am back on HT (after 3 years HT/RT). I put on 3.5 stone in the first 3 years and now I am back on HT my Consultant has put me on Ozempic to ensure I lose weight and not put any more on (my BMI was 36 I think).

    The way HT /RT works is the HT puts the cancer to sleep by reducing it's food (testosterone) and the RT kills off the cancer cells. RT works best after 3-6 months of HT.

    It's a hard choice and personally I would look at the pros and cons of each treatment and the possible side/after effects as to how they would affect you (and any partner). I am happy with my treatment and I didn't have a choice but with a PSA of 182 surgery would have been too much of a risk.

    Feel free to ask any questions, nothing is to trivial.

    Best wishes - Brian.

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  • Thanks for your reply Brian ,I will read your story as interested in side effects of the HT&RT,I have read alot but not from an actual person.I am worried about the weight gain so I hope my doctor will start me on monjaro or Olympic.

    Thanks again

    • Chris
  • Thanks Steve I sort of thought that aswell.

    I think I will ring my my Macmillan CNS and say I want to start the hormones asap and ask about any problems starting monjaro.Any weight loss is good for me.

    Thanks

    Chris