Struggling to do Kegels after RALP

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I am 16 days post-op and one week without catheter after RALP.

Before surgery I was pretty diligent with pelvic floor exercises and used the Squeazy app. All the advice is to restart PFE as soon the catheter is out, but I have struggled with this. The first few days my muscles were tight and tired, so it was too hard to get beyond one or two long squeezes.

I can now manage long squeezes, but as soon as I try the short rapid squeezes, I end up leaking and squirting pee, so I am now sitting on the loo to do them. Have others experienced this?

I thought I would try the PFE after emptying my bladder, but I don't seem to have the muscle strength right away to do them.

I'm thinking I should just focus on the long squeezes for now, and maybe I'll have more success with short squeezes later, as I don't want to intentionally wet myself every time I do PFE. 

Any advice to share?

  • Although i cannot speak directly to this, not having had a RALP,  I can bring other problems to mind.

    My own experience is that, especially as we age, our bodies do not recover quickly.

    I think you are doing exactly the right thing moving in stages.

    I am happy to place a small be that you will recover this skill in the fairly near future.

    Steve

    Changed, but not diminished.