I am just like a kid going to a new school - I have packed my bag! wipes, enemas, water bottle, latex gloves (my daughter sent these via Amazon to prepare me! With the exception of the enemas!) and a soft toy penguin for luck and a hug!
The crazy thing is, I do not start my treatment until Wednesday! I am sooo nervous, but also so wanting to get on with it. I am assuming it's a long and draining process traveling for 4 weeks, 5 days a week, but as my daughter said, these are speed bumps in life that you just get over and put them behind you!
My wife is going to have one anxious husband to deal with this week.
Good morning.
I am six months on from completing 37 days of radiotherapy.
It takes a couple of days to get into the rhythm, and then it become routine.
There is no pain and, in my case at least, managing the right level of bladder fullness became much easier as time passed.
The only problem I encountered was wind in the third week. I was advised to drink peppermint tea to forestall the problem.
That worked.
I probably overdid it, because I now loathe peppermint tea with a passion.
I turned up about 30 minutes before my appointment, and sat and waited. I was called in, bladder checked (ultrasound), and then waited a little longer.
Quite quickly after that I would be summoned, be arranged on the table, and the treatment would commence.
All you have to do is lay there watching the machine go round. No pain or sensation at all.
When you are done the staff re-enter the room, lower the table, allowing you to get off the bed, rearrange your underwear and clear the space before the next one.
The radiotherapy was no bother at all. Side effects were minor. A little extra fatigue which helped me avoid household chores for a couple of weeks.
My only problem was that I damaged my back in a completely unrelated incident about 2 weeks in, which made the journey and getting on and off the table more exciting than it should have been.
Now all of that is past, and I am back to normal.
Normal for me that is....
Steve
Changed, but not diminished.
We were both in such a state of nerves before the radiotherapy, also. That was wasted energy! Our oncology staff were wonderfully professional and reassuring! My husband grew to absolutely hate the enemas, though, and did suffer with some bloating part the way through. Just tell your team about any problems and they will come up with a remedy eg diet , fluids etc. The biggest problem for us was the daily drive and parking difficulties. I did the driving and was exhausted! My daughter took over the chauffeur role for week 3 and that was a big relief. We did not think my husband was up to driving at the time.
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