Hello
My partner was recently diagnosed prostate cancer. No symptons just went for a PSA test as we went to a wellness evening and there was a stand with info on prostate cancer.
At the appt for the biopsy results we were shocked to find his Gleason score was 9, cancer found in 11/13 samples. T2N0. Waiting for results of bone scan. I'm anxious as they sent him for an x-ray on his spine after the bone scan and he has had lower back issues for ages.
He has an appt on Friday 13th June, I assume to discuss treatment. Just want to ask if there is anything we need ask or what to expect.
Thank you.
Hello Shefflass
A warm welcome to the Macmillan Online Prostate Community from me - although I am so sorry to find you here.
As a fellow member of the Gleason 9 club I can understand your anxiety although as Grundo said a T2 and lowish PSA you should be offered either surgery or hormone therapy/radiotherapy.
My advice at the moment is start a diary of events and keep every contact name, e-mail and phone number you come across (you can read my journey - without any contact details by clicking on my avatar) this helps you remember events.
Questions for your team can be personal so here's a list you can consider:
At your appointment don't be rushed into making a choice - consider the options and side effects of each treatment as to how they would affect BOTH of you.
We are all happy to answer any questions.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Thank you Millibob. The nurse at the first appt sort of gave us the impression that everything would be fine, as it was a lowish PSA, which is why at the results appt it came as a shock when the nurse said it's aggressive.
I'm just anxious as he has had lower back ache for a while and then being sent for an xray on his spine straight after his nuclear scan.
I need to try and control my thoughts.
Take care.
Hello Shefflass
So T2 = The cancer is inside the gland . Good!
N0 = it's not in the lymph nodes. Good!
There should also be a "M" do you have this?
To me the lower back ache sounds to be unconnected.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Hi Eileen (Shefflass)
That's me -sorry - it's been a long weekend, I live in Oldham and was at Wembley yesterday and didn't get home until the early hours.
Yes you are correct "M".
If it helps your anxiety it's good to know 98% of men with Prostate Cancer die WITH it not OF it.
Best wishes - Brian.
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Hello Shefflass . If you want to find out what the different results mean and possible treatment pathways there is a good book which you can download for free.
https://issuu.com/magazineproduction/docs/js_prostate_cancer_guide_for_patients_ezine
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