Hi. I am trying to decide the right treatment for me. Following 2 years of active surveillance and my psa slowly rising I am mentally ready to have treatment.
But both surgery and radiotherapy have benefits and downsides. I am looking for any insights that might help me make an informed decision.
Cheers Tony3512
Thank you Pete. I am watching YouTube videos to gather more opinions and responses like yours are very helpful. Hope you treatment is going well.
Cheers Tony
Hi David. In 2 years my psa had gone from 3.6 to 5.8. I have still got the choice to stay on as but feel, at 72, that the time is right for treatment. As I get older I am only going to get less ableo have a complete recovery. At least that's my current thinking. No an easy decision is it.
Hi Tony. Like Pete I opted for sugery on the basis that I could have RT if it did re-occur (which it looks as though it has), that I thought cutting out the cancer was a more positive approach of getting rid of it and that hormone treatment / RT seemed like a drawn out affair. I was really petrified of having an op and would have actually preferred HT / RT for that reason however I went forward on my own thoughts. What I would say is that the actual op was a thousand times less traumatic than I envisaged. The after effects I am suffering - incontinence, ED, reduction in the little man's length and the associated mental effects due to these is not good. I am improving with these 7 months post and now feel I can accept where I am at but at the same time hoping things will improve further. Both options seem to run the potential risk of rotten side effects. The catheter for one week post was also absolutely awful - but it was only a week. It is such a difficult decision on which way to go. I am 68 and my cancer was aggressive with a PSA of 9. I wanted to live as long as possible and still do and I am so grateful and feel so privileged to have been given that chance. My understanding is that both active treatment routes have about the same success rate. Hope you come to a conclusion which you are totally happy with, as I feel I was.
I see a lot of my journey is similar to what you’ve been through, I’m 64 and I have recently joined a gym, it has really helped me, take care
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