This is my first post on here, I am 75 years old and had a quadruple heart by pass on Christmas Eve 2019, I was diagnosed with Prostate Cancer about 3 months ago, Gleason 3+4 PSA 8ng/l. Faced with the choice of radiotherapy or surgery I had decided on radiotherapy but on meeting with my consultant on decision day he told me that as a fit person (I walked most days) a non smoker and not overweight he had every confidence that surgery would be fine so at that moment I changed my mind…so surgery it was to be at Southend… a robotic prostatectomy
I went into Southend Hospital at 7am 11 days ago and found that I was first on the list so in theatre about 9am and woke up in ICU a few hours later minus my prostate but fitted with a suprapubic catheter…this is where the catheter goes into your bladder via a small incision under the navel.
After a hour or so I was off to the ward for an overnight stay and sent home mid morning the day after.
After 9 days with the catheter I was shown via a video how to remove the bag from my catheter and spigot the tube from by bladder (seal it)…I then had weekend to make sure that I could wee naturally and this morning, August 1st 2022, I went to Colchester Hospital to have the catheter tube removed, I was a little worried about this but I didn’t realise that it had been taken out until they were putting a dressing on.
Since I removed the bag and “went” naturally I had one little leak on the first day and not even a dribble since.
The point of this message is that its not all doom & gloom, maybe I’m just lucky as I’ve not needed any painkillers and feel almost as if I’d had nothing done.
I do have to say that I have been doing pelvic floor exercises for a couple of months.
All the best,
Terry
Hi tjh990 and welcome to the forum. Thanks for sharing your good news with us and please hang around as you might be able to reassure others who are going through the same treatment.
Terry,
Congrats on the successful surgery. Sounds like everything went totally to plan.
I've heard some horror stories but it's good to hear about a textbook procedure. I'm sure this will spur others on to opt for the surgery.
Don't know if I would have though. I wasn't suitable so I went down the Hormones and Radiotherapy option. Don't regret that decision at all. Now just over 5 months into Remission, PSA levels just done last week 0.03 so I am happy with that.
Steve (SteveCam)
Hello all , my husband had his catheter removed today , he had the robotic prostatectomy 2 weeks ago . There were no complications only that he had a cough . He’s so glad to get rid of the catheter but he has little leaks if he coughs, laughs , sneezes and gets up from sitting - very early days here , glad you’re ok .
This is really helpful and beneficial. I have the same Gleason score, though PSA is lower (5.62). I have vacillated between brachytherapy and EBRT, but now I'm thinking surgery is the best choice. It seems your issues with incontinence have been extremely negligible, which is really excellent. Did they discuss erectile dysfunction prior to the surgery? How has that been for you.
Please be well and thank you for your post.
-Dee
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