Hi there,
I’m 27 and was diagnosed a couple of weeks ago with a NET in my colon after a routine colonoscopy. I’m waiting for the results next week of my CT and MRI scans to check for any spread before confirming details for surgery.
I feel that I’ve been able to deal with things quite well so far and look forward to knowing more and getting it sorted out. I’ve found that my long term partner has become very distant, quiet and then suddenly quite angry towards me since the diagnosis.
I understand that it must be a shock and she is worried too but it’s becoming really hard to deal with and certainly isn’t making things any easier, I wondered if anyone else has experienced something similar and how they approached/deal with it?
Hi and a very warm welcome to the online community
That's good to hear that you feel that you've been handling your NET diagnosis well but I'm sorry to hear that your partner is struggling.
Whilst I didn't have this problem I have read many posts within the community when a partner or family member has struggled. You might find this information from Macmillan on cancer diagnosis and relationships useful to have a look through.
You could also download this booklet for your partner.
Wishing you all the best
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Hi Breezy,
Welcome to the community.
Sorry to hear of your diagnosis.
I too share this problem of late.
We've been through a lot and have been together for a long time but this is something that is becoming very difficult for me too so I can relate to how you may be feeling at the moment.
I've tried to encourage my partner to seek some support too and it is very tough on both parties.
I know Macmillan are an amazing source of resources and information.
I'm currently having some counseling (second timesince diagnosis) through a charity called AMEND. You could try to reach out to them.
They have been such a huge support network for me. Now my partner is taking up some support with them too so I'm hoping it will help us in the future.
If you would like to chat anymore please feel free to contact me. 
