Hello all
Thought I'd share my story, I've condensed the time lime to make it more readable!
So historically I have always been fit & healthy and no major health issues, I have just turned 56.
3 years ago (roughly) just had no energy felt sick a lot and lower right abdominal pain (had a really bad hernia about 10 years ago and it felt like another one)
Throughout the last 2.5 years I'd had so many doctors appointments, blood tests, FIT tests all to no avail, obviously after all this time and being fairly annoyed because they were just simply not listening! Only you know your body.
Fast forward to last Christmas I was so hacked off I decided to book a private CT scan with scan.com(with contrast) it cost me £1300 for a scan covering me from my neck down to my pelvis, best bloody decision I've ever made, within 2 days I received a call from a consultant to give me the results (the followup call was part of the package) And not good news, I had a 18mm lump near the terminal end of my Ileum.
So armed with this insight I booked an appointment with the GP, the GP put me on the 2ww, I didn't even get any contact for nearly 4 weeks! I didn't get a great experience with my local NHS, Things like expecting me to go for a sigmoid colonoscopy for biopsy which I refused (no not belligerent) for those that don't know a sigmoid colonoscopy doesn't go far enough to reach the ileum, I needed a full coloscopy to reach the lump to biopsy it. Thankfully we have a neighboring NHS hospital that is much better and would have ultimately been sent there anyway, but I wanted it dealt with so requested that they refer me to there.
Well good decision as by the time I had been messed about by my local NHS we were already at the end of May (yes 5 months after presenting my GP with the scan report. After referral within 2 weeks they gave me an appointment for colonoscopy one week had all my tests booked and condensed into the next week, PET scan Monday, CT Tuesday, Liver MRI Wednesday, 10 hr fasting blood test on Thursday and Echo cardiogram on Friday.
That was June this year and I had my right side hemicolectomy and 12 lymph nodes removed on the 7th of July. I was up and out of bed 3 hrs after my op and discharged after just two and a half days.
It's been OK since then, I'm on week 5 just finished my 28 days of self injecting blood thinner (I hated it!) generally feeling good although I've had numerous telling offs by my support nurses for pushing too hard but it's just my nature I guess, I do cycle 60 miles a week to work plus my own time riding I probably do around 100 miles a week so yes I do a lot of exercise, couple that with 2 children under 15 to keep busy too.
Over time I've lost nearly 18kgs total in weight, doesn't sound much but I only weigh 66kgs now and I'm 5 ft 9in tall so skinny as! The nausea persists as well as the lack of appetite (the heats not helping)
I'm early on in my healing but have tried to stay upbeat, I've hidden most of my pain and suffering from the children and didn't even tell them I had cancer until I was post op, obviously I had explained that I had a lump but played it down as a straight forward op to remove a lump inside me.
I think I've said enough now but if you are a NET sufferer and are struggling with what ever stage you are at please do reach out! Stay strong x
Hello NewSurvivor
I am Brian, one of the Community Champions here on the Community. Whilst I have a very different cancer I have just read your post and the offer of help to others in the same situation which is brilliant.
What a great decision of yours to go to the next NHS Trust - it just shows the differing level of care in the NHS.
I wish you well with your continued recovery - I personally don't think you can overdo exercise, and if you do i think your body will tell you.
Carry on you are doing great things.
Best wishes - Brian.

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Hi Brian, yeah I thought all exercise is good too, but my form of exercise is probably a lot more than some healthy people could handle, to put it in perspective my first exercise of the day would be 50 sit ups, that's not happening at all!
Cycling is out of the question too!
But looking on the bright side I should bounce back well and I won't have that problematic lump in me!
Just staying positive is a great thing, I know it's hard, I had some pretty dark thoughts after my cancer diagnosis, but by the time I had a route map for treatment and my consultant had explained everything I could look forward to getting it fixed!
I feel I've been very lucky, no chemo, no radiotherapy & no stoma.
I almost feel guilty for being so lucky when I read other people's stories!
Hell NewSurvivor
Never feel guilty for recovering - it's something that's very personal to you and take it as a gift - life is precious and it's to be enjoyed. I love my life - kids, grandkids what's not to enjoy!!
I am 4.5 years into my personal journey - incurable but happy. Life is good, almost 71 and plenty of positive thoughts - yes no stoma, yes radiotherapy was like being on a sunbed and no chemo (yet!) My Consultant thinks something else will see me off before my cancer .
If you have a spare 1/4 of an hour - here's an interesting read for you:
After The Treatment Finishes - Then What?
Stay lucky and enjoy life - it's for living.
Best wishes - Brian.

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Brian,
Bless you, you sound very chipper considering!
Very kind words, very appreciated.
Hope you carry on being happy, I'm the same as you it sounds always been a happy never look back kinda guy, I had my whole ward (nurses too) laughing profusely while I was in hospital, I think they were all appreciative of my joking!
One of my fellow patients asked me if I could stay in a bit longer because he was the happiest he'd been for a while!
All the best
Darren
Hello Darren (NewSurvivor)
I can tell you when you receive a Prostate Cancer diagnosis your dignity goes out of the window and dark humour becomes the order of the day.
The first part of the prostate diagnosis is the biopsy and when you walk into a room full of female nurses and a table with stirrups (not the horse riding type! ) your life changes - forever.
Some of the repeatable stories are here:
‘Cancer can’t take my sense of humour’- Brian's story
Many are reserved for face to face meetings only - .
Even on the Prostate group my personal thread is called Que Sara Sara.
Life goes on, it's too short to be miserable!!
Best wishes - Brian.

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