Hi all. I came onto this group 11 months ago after my diagnosis. Besides being monitored nothing much has changed. However today I am feeling very overwhelmed. Last visit to the specialist was six weeks ago. I was feeling a lot of pain. Very tired and out of breath. He ordered some tests and said he wanted to see me in 4 weeks. Appointment has just come through and it will be two and a half months, not 4 weeks. Doctor also said my protein levels were rising slowly but then I found that they had gone from 26 to 34 which in my opinion is not a slow increase. He also said my treatment will start soon but that needs to be discussed by a multi disciplinary team. My husband has just had a hip replacement so needing a lot of my time and energy. I feel exhausted most of the time. Am I being silly in feeling out of control. Feeling neglected. Feeling unworthy of treatment.
Hi, I’ve just started treatment 21 months after diagnosis. My protein/light chains were high but I was fairly asymptomatic (breathless/tired/joint pain). A repeat MRI, however, showed four lesions which were probably there at the last MRI 18 months ago.
I, like you, have found the whole process overwhelming, distressing and I have cried a river. I had planned a family holiday if the MRI had been clear. When I discussed this with the consultant he said fine, go on holiday, start the chemo when you come back, which I did.
It seems that often, not always, the progress is quite slow, you have time to plan and treat which is why, possibly, they are having multidisciplinary meetings and giving you an appt a couple of months away. Why not contact your MacMillan team at the unit and talk it through with them, they are really approachable and I’m sure they will either reassure you or get an earlier appt for you.
Hi. Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post. I did get in touch with my team nurse because an appointment had not come through and this is what they sent me. Another 5 weeks away.
All my doctor says is that treatment is worse than the symptons. Is this true. Is treatment worth having. I am so confused.
I had my third chemo today so only just getting into the swing of it, there are lots of posts with individual experiences and they do vary. I feel dizzy, have heartburn and have some skin reactions systemically and locally over the injection sites on my tummy which they took photos of and got some medics to look at.
I will say, thus far, it’s not as bad as I was anticipating. I’m dog walking, shopping, gardening as usual, although a bit slower and in a more befuddled way at times. I’m praying this is as bad as it gets, at least before the stem cell transplant which I know will be difficult.
As regards to if the treatment is worth it, I’m sure everyone, medics and fellow myeloma sufferers, will give a resounding yes. If you look at the research and studies you’ll see blood cancer treatments have come on leaps and bounds in the past few years enabling people to live far longer than they did twenty years ago. There are new treatments, such as Car-t, used successfully in other countries that will also become available to us on the NHS in the next few years.
I’ve had to try and push my concerns to the side and trust the process. Untreated Myeloma is described as a ‘sneaky’ disease with many only knowing when they break a bone or worse. You are already at an advantage because you are being monitored. Hope that helps.
Hi Tess123, Kevin here also known as Vespa, sorry to read about your anxiety but it is a natural feeling especially when your partner needs help also, there are clear steps that haematologist go through and tend to involve a Stem cell nurse specialist to guide you, please please take it from me, 17 months post Stem cell transplant, the treatment is worth it, as GW2 said in their reply, we are all different, but most of the treatments if you are a candidate for Auto Stem cell tend to follow the same pattern of DVTD which is a combination of injections ( in your abdomen ) and some at home tablets, none of this i assure you is painful, you may get some side effects, fatigue being the main one, possibly some neuropathy, and all these have their treatments to counter them, be prepared for lots of tablets and blood tests, each cycle tends to take 4 weeks, a short gap ( 1 week) then onto the next cycle until they get all the blood readings low for protein and light chains, IT WORKS ! Then the stem cell harvest, once again not painful but boring and time consuming, up to 7 hours per day for 2 days to collect the plasma and put your blood back, this is then frozen down ( usually enough for 2 SCT) ready for the SCT, that was my first hospital stay, a body conditioning Chemotherapy, then next day the Stem cell transplant, let us all come back to that for you when and if this happens, please tell us, have you had an MRI SCAN or a bone marrow biopsy yet? i am male, 67, father, grandfather, an i assure you i am going to be around to see them all go to school, often overlooked by the specialist is the mental challenges we face, Macmillan are brilliant for this type of support, and some people on this forum have been an inspiratuiion to me on my Journey, i am well, and in Remission and leading a good life, it is worth the effort, but you are going to need some support, i could drive myself to most of my appointments, but i did miss out on my Sons wedding in Australia, as i could not travel, but i insisted my wife other son and daughter went, this was when i was right in the middle of the treatment cycles i know its a long message, but a lot of us on here have been there, and we can give moral support on our experiences, you are not alone, please keep in touch on the forum we all wish you well Kevin
Hi,
Welcome to the forum.
You are thoroughly worthy of treatment - I wish that I could give you a hug, given everything that you are going through.
The tests and the multidisciplinary meeting are necessary first steps. They are needed to put together the plan for (typically) around 6 months of treatment.
Just like building a house needs good foundations, your treatment needs to be well thought out, first, based on your specific clinical situation (type of myeloma, standard or high risk, whether there are comorbidities etc)
Please let off steam to your heart's content! When I was first diagnosed, I had no one to turn to for support: my family were emotionally fragile because of my news, and I had/have no friends. This was before I discovered this forum.
The treatment is definitely worth having! There are very likely to be side effects, and I would be a liar to say that the treatment is likely to always be easy. However, plenty of people here like Vespa and I can confirm that there will be light at the end of the tunnel, when you can do what you want to do!
Speaking for myself, I have been in remission for 2 years and am really enjoying life!
Whatever cancer throws your way, we’re right there with you.
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