Hello everyone, I am new to this forum so I’ll fill you in a little about myself. My my husband was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma in May last year. He has just finished 4 months of Chemotherapy. In 3 weeks time he is due to start his autologous stem cell transplant. Unfortunately this will take place 35 miles from where we live and I am so worried I will not be able to visit very often because I don’t drive. Has anyone had any experience of problems like this. We are both mid seventies.
Hi Berni and a warm welcome to this corner of the Community although I am always sorry to see folks joining us. I am Mike and I help out around our various Blood Cancer groups.
I don’t have Myeloma but I was diagnosed way back in 1999 at 43 with a rare, incurable but treatable type of Low Grade NHL eventually reaching Stage 4a in late 2013 so although my Blood Cancer ‘type’ is different I do appreciate the challenges of this journey rather well…….. especially as I have had 2 Allo (donor) Stem Cell Transplants (SCT)
There are a few folks in this group but also a good number in our dedicated Stem cell transplant Support Group who are going through SCT, been through SCT or supported family on their SCT journey.
I could not have an Auto (autologous) SCT as I could not be put into remission to get clean Stem Cells to harvest so I fortunately had my brother was a perfect match so he went through the harvest for me.
We live in Inverness but both my SCTs were done in Glasgow….. a 7-8 hour (330miles) round trip drive so my wife moved into temporary accommodation that the hospital had for the 4 weeks for my first SCT then 7 weeks for my second…… but I have to say that I slept a lot during the process and at times my wife could have been on the other side of the world and I would have not been any the wiser - but face-time is a great tool.
I have talked with many people in their 70s who have been though an Auto SCT and some through an Allo SCT and they are doing great.
It’s hard but do-able ((hugs))
Hello Berni, so sorry to hear this. My transplant is at Newcastle which is 50 miles from me afterwards they are transferring me to James Cook in Middlesbrough so I am much closer to home and friends and family, is this something that the hospital may offer you? I hope your husband gets on well the harvest is much easier than it sounds so don’t worry about that! Xxx
Thank you so much, it’s so nice to know of the support out there. I am feeling quite positive knowing other people have been going through similar and sometimes much worse things. It’s been an awful few months but I feel all the signs are pointing to a good outcome. Thank you.
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