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Hi my name is Paul

I'm new to the group and very happy to finally have plucked up the courage to read about other peoples experiences as well as share mine.

I'm 45 years old and was diagnosed with Myeloma in January 2021. The news was a complete shock to me and my family as I had no symptoms whatsoever but the results of a blood test following an unrelated stomach pain left the medical professionals in no doubt.

February brought Bone Marrow tests, MRI scans, x-rays, CT scans as well as the usual bloods being taken which finally ended up with my treatment plan. Reality started to hit when I saw the word "Chemotherapy" in black and white for the first time.

I'm part way through my 2nd cycle of treatment and generally feel well although I have a few bad days at the start of the cycle when I get more chemo than at the end of the cycle.

As I'm sure is the case with everyone, my journey so far has had its ups and downs with lots of emotion, confusion, acceptance and many other feelings. I've already taken so much from some of the blogs, I guess the best people to listen to are the people with the experience of living with Myeloma whether that be them or a loved one.

I'm not sure exactly what the future looks like as I'm just trying to focus on each month but I know the treatments are amazing and my Consultant is very positive. For now I'm in good spirits and fighting this with all I've got.

Onwards and upwards 

Paul

  • Hi Paul,

    It is good to get to meet you although I do wish it was in a different scenario.

    I’m happy to read that you are in good spirits and your mindset to focus on the here and now is definitely the best one in my experience.

    This whole process is definitely akin to a rollercoaster that no-one wants to ride and there are lots of times it can feel like three steps forward, two steps back, etc, so look after yourself as sometimes it can be as much a mental challenge as a physical one. Please stick around and keep us posted as you go along and use this space for whatever you need it for. I am 5 years post treatment now so my knowledge is getting a bit out of date but I’m sure you’ll connect with others who are going through what you are going through now, and I am really hoping that everything continues to go really well for you and that the treatment does the job of putting the myeloma back in its box where it belongs.

    All the best

    Greg

  • Hi Greg 

    Thank you for your kind words and support, it means a lot.

    I'm going to find this forum very helpful and will certainly keep updating as I go along.

    Keep well

    Paul

  • I'm post stem cell transplant and am having Lenalidomide to supress it.  It's newly approved by the NHS, if you've had a bone biopsy then your probably through the worst, keep your chin up that's the best tonic.  I had a laugh with the nurses but found hospital wonderful at treatment, not so good at care.  That's ok though as they've a lot on.  Mine was a groin pain that wouldn't go away, diagnosed June 6th last year after a bit of dilly-dallying.  Still have plenty of aches and pains, as I write this at 4:30 in the morn it feels like I've been punched in the ribs....but one lady of 87 I met has survived 25 years!

  • Thanks for taking the time to respond and sharing some of your experience. I'm sorry you're suffering with pain also and hope this isn't to bad.

    I'm still early days into my journey and the Myeloma has only affected 1 rib and a small area in my breast bone. I've had my bone marrow biopsy which I'm told is the worst bit so all I'm doing is one cycle of treatment at a time then on to the next. SCT hopefully after 4th cycle is the plan so plenty for me to be positive about.

    Again, thanks for taking the time to respond, I really appreciate it.

    Hope you keep well and stay safe.

    Paul

  • Yes, my biopsy was excruciating, the rest was unpleasant but not as bad.  I bottled the last art of it but they had what they needed to confirm the condition.  Hospital phoning with latest test results, my levels were 3,000 at the start with control being 25 I believe!  I went up to 129 after 3 months but lenalidomide is appears to be driving it back down.  Will know more later today.....