My mum is currently in her first relapse of her Myeloma & currently on the maximum dose of Lenalidomide (25mg) & high dose Dexamethasone (40mg), a different treatment to her first one (Velcade) back in 2017. My dad passed away last year (non cancer related) so at present there is just me & mum living in our house & I have no siblings. My mum is in her 1st treatment cycle & on week 2 of 3. Initially she tolerated it well & apart from some tiredness there was no problem. However, since Saturday mum has been in bed, very weak & virtually no appetite, vomiting a couple of times & at times poor short term memory/confusion. I've felt very alone & have been keeping myself busy to keep the 3 bed semi & garden presentable/clean. I'm still emotionally recovering from my dad passing away last year so to watch the slow decline of my mum to the point I don't recognise her at times is too much. She is like a ghost & has that Alzheimer's type glazed look in her eyes.
Is this normal for Lenalidomide to experience these side effects after tolerating the first 10 days or so? Or could the dose be too high?
Hi Steph
I'm on lenolidomide, ( together with ixazomib and dex) ,just started my 19th cycle. I remember when I first started it I did feel very rough indeed. But as time went on and my myeloma came under control it now doesn't affect me much at all. Your mum's dose is the normal starting dose, so you could discuss that with her clinician at her next appointment. I don't know how old she is but her Dex dose is at the top of the scale, and that can have effect on her mental level.
Why don't you ring the info line at myeloma uk. The nurses there are brilliant and will be of real help to you.
All the best to you and your mum
Sue
Hello Sue,
Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it. My mum is still very much the same today so I phoned the Haemotology unit for their advice. She asked me a lot of questions about the side effects, which I found later looking at toxicity on Macmillan so they've told her to cease this cycle immediately. They're going to review her next week before she would start her 2nd cycle. She at least ate a yogurt tonight so that's better than yesterday but she seemed to struggle to feed herself with the coordination. I'm hoping, like you say, that's just the steroids & will improve in the next couple of days by stopping.
19th cycle that is incredible strength. I wish you all the best & good luck for your treatment. Is this your first treatment or are you in a relapse phase, if you don't mind me asking?
Steph
Hi Steph!
How are you and your ma doing now? So sorry to hear that you lost your dad and are now in this situation with your mother. I lost my Dad to myeloma last year after he was diagnosed in 2015. Lenalidomide was amazing! It did make my dad very confused in the beginning though, but it was hard to tell if it was just the drug or the sepsis which he was recovering from....probably both.
I think lenalidomide is known to do this, also remember that its a depressant as many cancer drugs are.
Stay strong x
Hello AdeleBee,
Sadly my mum passed away on the 25th May in Pinderfields Hospital from Covid 19/pneumonia. She'd managed to fight off the sepsis but unfortunately as she was recovering on a general ward she contracted Covid & didn't have enough fight left to recover. Today is the funeral & I've found it very tough since she passed away, can't help but feel like an adult orphan now. Best wishes to yourself & sorry my message isn't in better circumstances. Keep safe
Hi Steph,
I’m so sorry to hear this. I’m sure your mam was/is very proud knowing what you saw and would go through without her physical presence. I remember you said that you lost your dad last year andI can’t imagine how you must be feeling, surely overwhelmed with sadness for a start. So very sorry and I’m thinking of you.
How was the funeral? I hope you had enough support as I know now is a difficult time to be able to give the best send off possible to a loved one. Don’t be sorry either! I have 5 siblings which I’m grateful for...but I still found myself reaching out to people here months after he passed and during those difficult months before.
Take care and try to be patient with yourself.
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