Hi everyone. I’m new to this group.
the week before Christmas I was diagnosed with invasive melanoma. My boyfriend of 4.5 years & I was having problems & he had moved by to his house. Upon my diagnosis moved he back into my house & he has been by my side throughout.
in January I had a WLE on my face & lymph node tests. Last Thursday I received the results from the lymph nodes. The cancer had not spread.
on Friday we were out celebrating. All drunk.
He went to bed & I was looking at his phone for something different & discovered he was on fab swingers website messaging numerous women practically begging them to meet up. It all got very out of hand. My kids are in their 20s & threw him out my house. I was & am distraught over it. I very very stupidly wrote it all over his facebook page the next day & humiliated him.
He then told me he has never met any of these women & was looking for attention & to feel wanted. We both struggled to deal with the diagnosis.
I would like some advice. Has anyone else been through anything this? Thank you for reading
