This is only my second post.
My brother has stage 4 lung cancer and since I last
Posted it has spread to the brain. He has had treatment for
this a month ago.
Throughout the 4 months I've supported him 100% and he is
Getting worse but refusing to go into hospital. He lives with
His son who is very little support and i got to the stage where
Things have came to a breaking point. I've taking a step back
Which meant his son had to step up which he is not happy with.
I dont want to cause tension but the last 4 months have taking their toll
On me and I need a break but also my husband and family see I need to have some time out.
I feel guilty and constantly worry but the last 3 weeks I wasn't sleeping and having
Panic attacks. I just feel helpless .
Hi Liquidsunshine I am sorry to hear about your brother, and I can understand how overwhelmed you are feeling right now. Caring for a loved one is hard, especially if other family members are not helping.
Kegsy has mentioned the Supporting someone with incurable cancer forum where you can connect to other members who are in a similar situation to yourself. You can also chat to someone on the Macmillan support line on 0808 808 00 00.
Sometimes we have to take a step back for our own mental health. Your brother lives with his son, so he has support, don’t feel guilty for taking time for yourself. Once you are mentally stronger you will be able to cope with what is ahead more easily.
Take care
