My mom was diagnosed with NSCLC back in January and it has been such a whirl wind since, at one point we almost lost her due to a chest infection and it was the scariest thing I’ve ever experienced. My mom is now on Afatinib as her cancer can’t be cured it’s just to prelong her life. Just wondering if people have had good experiences with Afatinib? My mom has been put on the lower 30mg dose due to the 40mg dose causing strong side effects. But since leaving hospital after they cured her chest infection she’s picked up in strength she looks a lot better than she did. At one point she was struggling to get up the stairs and go to the bathroom. Now she’s able to walk the stairs and go bathroom again and she walked to mine the other day which was just beautiful to see I was so proud of her. As far as I’m aware she hasn’t been given a limit on how long she has left on this planet with us, and when she asked the doctor “ so I have a good chance then?” The doctors response was “oh goodness yes” which is very positive. I’m not quiet sure what I’m looking for with this post but I just need to talk and express myself.
warmest regards, stay safe all xx
Hi Danip
My mum was diagnosed with the same in December. She started on triplet therapy (2x chemo and 1x immunotherapy) 4 rounds over 3 months, and is now on maintenance. The prognosis is positive and I would say that there is every reason to be optimistic. There are so many new treatments now, and lung cancer can be treated, even if it is incurable people can live long and well. I recognise how you must be feeling, and the terrible uncertainty during the testing, and waiting for a diagnosis. It is the scariest and most devastating thing ever to have happened to us. I can't comment on Afatinib, my mum is on pemetrexed and pembrolizumab (keytruda immunotherapy) maintenance. But there has been a reduction in tumour size following the first 2 rounds of her first line treatment. She is well, and very healthy, and really we are all feeling that there is every reason to continue to be positive. Do you mind me asking what stage your mum is and if it is isolated?
Take care, and sending positive vibes.
Nicola
I too was diagnosed in January and have been on Afatinib for 9 weeks 40mg the side effects have been awful and after reading your story about your mum I feel that I can ask to be reduced to 30mg because waking up every day feeling rubbish is soul destroying. I also have the same cancer as your mum and I am 67years old and until the lockdown still worked full time as a carer,I have been desperate to be in touch with someone else who is going through the same to find out how they coped with the emotional side of it and any tips on coping with the side effects, and if I can help your mum with any advice of what I’ve been through please ask. Talsa
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