Hello, this is me

Hello, I've had a bad 4 years with repeated sepsis (and organ failure with it last year) so am very lucky to be alive anyway.

After the organ failure I felt unwell for ages, but, got better. I had awful pain in my hip/thigh (doc not interested) then 6+ month of continuous kidney infection(s). Doctor, kept promising a referral but. It never got done.

I've. Had severe blood sugar plummets as far as 'unreadable' over the 4 years. Not diabetic. 

Then I moved out of area and had a new GP. 

Have sudden unexplained anaemia, not iron deficiency. Went through testing for gynae cancer; all clear. 

Blood tests showed CA19-9 was raised; a CT scan with contrast that showed a 2+cm growth in the upper ureta extending into the psoas muscle side. I was told by the GP it is malignant, I have cancer, he was very sorry and said, I had an urgent referral. Scan alo showed a 9mm and a mm kidney stones; big one in he kidney, small one behind the tumour - also have atrophied pancreas, CBD dilation of 12.5mm, a simple cyst and a 6cm haemangioma? Are these related?? 

But, the day before my first appointment (telpbne appointment - which felt odd considering diagnosis) I was admitted as they very quickly diagnosed another bout of sepsis (temperature went down to 21.9c, ) and I, had emergency surgery to fit a uretal stent. 5 days in hospital with fluids and antibiotics

I've been home 8 and days. 

Was told I was in the 2 week wait to have a biopsy done (6 days left, no communication). But now I got a letter saying I need an isotope scan. 

I just don't understand - why is no one talking to me about the diagnosis or the actual plan. 

I'm sorry for the long post.