Hi all and sorry you are all here :(
My lovely Dad (64) has just been diagnosed with high grade UTUC. It seems to be a rare type of cancer and I can’t find much about it - I am not even sure if I should be posting in the kidney or bladder cancer chat!
I am looking for people who have UTUC who wouldn’t mind sharing their stories with me?
Dad has a 7cm mass on his kidney. They were going to remove the kidney however he then had a PET scan and it showed that he had an active lymph node - due to the position of the node it can’t be removed ( it’s behind the aortic vein.
he now has to have chemo (oncologist appt) tomorrow to try and get rid of the lymph node issue and then surgery would be an option after that if he responds well.
if anyone has any experience with this type of cancer please reply, I’d love to chat.
wishing everyone well in their fight!
claire x
Hi Clara and everyone else on this thread !. Sorry to hear about your Dad Clara
Hi Bubble1,
welcome to our very small group, am so pleased your surgery and chemo was successful, you can see my story to date by clicking on my name. You will see I had my chemo before surgery due to cancer being too large to operate, but I am currently cancer free and have just moved to six monthly cystoscopies and scans after two years of three monthly intervals. I was very anaemic after chemo and surgeon did suggest I may need to come in for a transfusion before op but luckily my body managed to sort itself out on its own.
I wish you good health in the future and keep in touch
Annie x
Thank you for replying Annie . Your story has given me a lot more hope and its good to hear you are now on 6 monthly checks!! Did you have scans and cystoscopies every 3 months?
It will be good to keep in touch with you and the others in this small group - it makes you feel you are not alone as it's so easy to get up and down days
Not having family close we miss their support and we live quite remote which is lovely sometimes but can get quite lonely
Thanks for your encouraging words
Hi Bubble1,
I have sent you a friend request so we can chat offline as well. Had cystoscopies every 3 months for 2 years and CT scans with contrast of chest, abdomen and pelvic every six months, my next checks are both due in August and if CT scan remains clear my consultant said I will be going onto annual scans! But cystoscopy remains 6 monthly for 2 more years
Annie x
Hey Bubble
Your journey sounds similar to Dads. Blood in urine fobbed off by Dr as infection. Dad started chemo on Monday - first round of Gem/Cis. He will have 3/4 rounds and hopefully it does the trick and we can have the kidney out.
Annie and Nick were super helpful to me and Dad sharing their journeys and just for general support and advice. Their journeys also gave us a lot of hope. X
Hi Clara - Thanks for replying . How did your Dad found his first chemo session?? I know everyone reacts differently but I do hope he is okay?
I had 1 long session with Gem/Cis and then a week later a short session of just Gem and then a week off before I started again and had a total of 4 cycles . It might be a different regime for him ??
It is good to have found others on here for support and advice
Hi, I was diagnosed with the same last year. Tried adjuvant chemotherapy but my body wouldn't tolerate it well. They then did a radical nephrectomy. Since then I did a few months of immunotherapy but another tumor was found in December. Did 25 rounds of radiation therapy. A few months later, tumor started to grow again and now I"m back on chemo-immunotherapy with my body (blood) not reacting very well....it's a long journey. I wish you and your Dad well.
Hi Nick,
I think the cancer I have is the same? It’s TCC kidney cancer. I am due to have chemo at the Churchill, I am hoping this starts soon. The drugs you mention are the same as those recommended for me so hope I have the same level of success.
Do you go to any of the group meetings which take place in the Maggies centre. I just feel a bit overwhelmed with everything at the moment. But it’s good to be able to share experiences with others who have the same diagnosis.
I hope the treatment is going well for yourself and all those who have joined the conversation.
Take care
Rosie
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