Just before we all get heavily involved in the new "Zoom" Christmas that we in the UK will be having this year I wanted to wish everyone who has supported me through my journey of the past year a Merry Christmas and a Good New Year.
I know for many this Christmas will be doubly difficult with a cancer diagnosis to deal with alongside the Covid restrictions and the worry that brings relating to your, or your loved ones', treatment. It was last Christmas Day that I finally broke down and was unable to contain my feeling any longer. You know, it is OK to have those moments. We all need to let the emotion out at some stage.
Generally we are the fortunate ones with this cancer; as treatments are very tough, but good and survival is very high. AND we have this magical resource of friendship and advice through this forum.
I can't speak for every hospital, but to reassure those that are starting their journey or those that are feeling isolated from their clinical teams... My clinical team have been great throughout the Covid crisis and they are still doing routine face to face follow-ups (I wish they would not as I hate the scoping!!!). I personally feel safe in the hospital system from both a cancer and Covid point of view. I am sure your own teams will be there for you and will be happy if you are in any way concerned, for you to contact them and seek reassurance.
So, enjoy this "Covid Christmas" as best as you can and I pray for the best possible outcome in the coming year for everyone.
Merry Christmas Peter
you echo how many of us feel and it’s a terrible thing but having talked to lots of fellow sufferers there is this awful feeling of being grateful it all happened to us before Covid did.
There are so many shortcomings surfacing in the face of this virus and enduring treatment and the fear of what diagnosis will reveal is becoming more of a challenge. Post treatment so many people are feeling abandoned as they are left to their own devices without explanation.
So thank you too, Peter for all the support you have given.
Dani
Base of tongue cancer. T2N0M0 6 weeks Radiotherapy finished January 2019
Hi Peter
You have summed up perfectly our small and friendly group.
Yes the treatment is challenging and recovery can be varied in time. But we are all ready to help any new or old friends.
stay safe and lets hope the Astra Zeneca vaccine soon gets approval and mass vaccination can begin
merry Christmas snd a better new year.
Ps off for my first face to face since February this afternoon
Hazel
Hazel aka RadioactiveRaz
My blog is www.radioactiveraz.wordpress.com HPV 16+ tonsil cancer Now 6 years post treatment. 35 radiotherapy 2 chemo T2N2NM.Happily getting on with living always happy to help
2 videos I’ve been involved with raising awareness of HNC and HPV cancers
Merry Christmas Peter!
This resource has been a godsend for me, as i imagine it is to others, and like yourself there have been times when ive found it all a bit much to deal with (especially as i am being investigated for a possible unrelated cancer (prostate) )
As for the cancer team during covid, i cant really complain- they still do face to face meetings as well, and the radio team were top notch
It is other patients i have struggled with, a few days ago a maskless patient decided to cough on me, and as i am still vulnerable i stressed about it for hours.
Thanks to all on this board who have answered my daft paranoid questions over the last 6 months, a merry xmas to you all and i hope everyone here gets fantastic outcomes.
Trev
Hi Peter
I also posted a greetings before seeing you had beaten me to it. Have a good one and thanks for any words of wisdom etc. It is always hard trying to express gratitude but its heartfelt to you all.
Mo xx
Awe thanks for this lovely message during a year troubled with covid, thanks also for your great replies to posts all full of great info, keep up the good work and have a lovely Chrismas with a better New Year, my friend, take care Peter and thanks again for your involvement.
Chris x
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