Hi .. my partner has oesophagus cancer stage 4 and we found out his liver has also got lesions and are growing .. he has been through so much the last 2 years since diagnoses and has just changed his chemo he was on as the growth has doubled and that didn't work .. now there putting him on paclitaxel and I am so scared .. he could experience hair loss for first time and I don't want to so vien but that will be a big change for me but I am mostly scared about what if this doesn't work either.. has anyone tried this and whats the experiences been like.. looking for anything positive at the moment as I feel like crying all the time .. thank you.
Hi there,
My husband also has OC stage 4 - we've been through different treatments over the last 18 months+ and I totally understand how upsetting it all is. I am sending you a big virtual hug xx
In terms of hair loss you could ask your oncologist or the clinical nurses about having a cold cap fitted, it's not guaranteed but it can definitely help prevent hair loss. Bear in mind you have to have it on for 30 mins before the paclitaxel and I think for an hour after, so it does make the treatment time longer, and you'll need something like a spray on leave-in conditioner the nurses can spray on the hair before it goes on. As per the name it is coooold and not for everyone, but the nurses can do a lot to make you comfortable (blankets and warmer pads etc). I just wanted to mention it as an option as I think you need to start using it from day 1 for it to be effective.
You will already know by now that everyone gets different side effects with chemo.. With paclitaxel we had some nail changes which you can stay ahead of with a kind of varnish to paint on - we had one called OnicoLife which helped, and we were also careful to keep the hands and feet warm and well moisturised which can help with neuropathy and ofcourse dry skin. We also had some nausea/constipation but not majorly, and the supporting meds they give you really helped. Will your partner be having it weekly?
Sending you lots of good wishes, and wish you and your partner every success
xx
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