Positive invasive stage 2 result

So sorry you face g this but I'm sure your children will pick up your stress so maybe it's best to just give them the facts you have to date.  Your son will understand your stress your daughter will be able to deal with - my grown up daughter has MH condition too.  

you have a lot on your plate. i would wait to tell them until you have had the appt and know the plan. because it helps answer the what next questions we have, the waiting and the unknown things are some of the hardest parts. because we spend so much time think what if.

once you have a plan you will hopefully feel less out of control and can tell them. I am sure they would want yo support you as best they can.

hugs

This is so hard.  For me it was the hardest thing telling people.  I understand you are worried about how they will cope.  I was the same.  I postponed telling my family (except husband) until I was starting treatment.  When I did tell them it was such a huge relief and they were so ok that I really wished I had told them sooner.  It was a big weight lifted that they knew what was going on.  So I hope you are able to tell them so that they can support you as I’m sure you have supported them always.  X