I had triple negative breast cancer in 2012, so I was 9, nearly 10 years clear. I recently found a small lump next to one of my reconstruction implants. I expected it to just be like all other 'just in case' tests I've had done ober the years, but turns out there are cancer cells in it based on the needle biopsy. I found out when I went to get a core biopsy on Friday, and I am also waiting on a date for a PET scan. I am scared, and sad, and can't believe it is happening again when I was so sure I was in the clear now. I don't know yet whether it is a local recurrence or something worse - the other tests are needed for that. I am dreading having to tell my 9 year old son (I'm holding off doing that until I know a bit more). I mostly coped ok last time, but he was a 6 month old baby then so he had no idea what was happening, and having to look after him was a good distraction a lot of the time. I feel like I don't have enough energy in me at the moment to stay positive, as the outcome seems so much more bleak second time around
Hi PG
Welcome the forum and sorry to hear that your breast cancer has returned. Hopefully the fact that the lump you found was small means that there has been no spread. I hope you don’t have to wait too long for the PET Scan.
Wishing you the best of luck with your scan when you have it.
Best wishes
Daisy53
Hi. I can only imagine how you feel. I am now realising why you often hear the phrase ' cancer is a lifelong condition '. I often hear ladies who after treatment become clear, then live in fear of it returning. I'm presently in the middle of treatment, get more results tomorrow. Stories like yours make me realise that if at some point I'm hopefully cancer free there will always be that concern of it returning.
I wish I could offer advice re your son. I'm guessing that if you told him he may throw lots of questions at you. You know him best and will know whether it may worry him, or he shrug it off. Kids are so different. However he may already be picking up on the change if you are worrying or distracted.
I sincerely hope you have others around you to support you and support you with your son. I think we worry about our loved ones more than we worry about ourselves. Remember this community is always there and I'm really pleased you've reached out to it. Always here if you need a chat. X
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