just diagnosed and so scared

FormerMember
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Hello

I've just been diagnosed with invasive ductal cancer grade 3 triple negative I'm so scared is anyone going through the same? 

  • FormerMember
    FormerMember in reply to Venicelagoon

    Of course you can X 

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    FormerMember in reply to Shaz52

    EC , you on that Shaz? 

  • Yh of course you can, everybody is welcome, will be lovely.  Give each other massive hugs and paint the town red xxxxxxHeartHeart

  • Yh on ec with the F so Fec then the t is doxacetol, not sure if spelt that right lol  I will have herceptin with the t cycle xxx 

  • Most definitely the more wigs the better JoyJoyxxx

  • Hey Mel , hope your operation went ok today , been thinking about you xx

  • Hi Jayne my results appointment is 9/11 but hope it will be sooner, not sure re chemo as I think my surgeon is going to discuss the Optima trial with me. If any more positive nodes then would need CT scan. Glad you’ve got a bit more energy, just remember after the next one you’re already half way, you can do it.

    I was thinking to myself earlier, I still can’t believe this is happening but trying to stay positive even with the pain of the cording and seroma under my arm, can’t wait for Tuesday to have it drained again.

    Diane x

  • Hi, I was first on the list. All went as expected.  Not in pain. Have a drain in place.  All the staff where really nice today.  Have bone scan and CT scan next week which I am dreading and then back to see consultant 4th November for results.  I am so scared of more bad news xx

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    FormerMember in reply to .mel28

    .mel28

    Hey we are all in the same boat of fear...but you know what I say to myself...it is what it is...so you have two options...to keep thinking bad OR good news. Make a choice....which will make u feel better about the whole situation?

    What you're feeling everyone here can relate...the anxiety is very real! It's not nice but acknowledge each hurdle you pass. Take comfort you're not in pain and other good things. Keep your exercises up...

    I know I cannot do much to help but I am sending you love and healing vibes. You got this.

    C x

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    FormerMember in reply to Harleybear

    @Harleybear

    How are you holding up with chemo?

    Remember you're so brave.

    I can just imagine the colourful wigs...that will be so amazing!!

    C x