just diagnosed and so scared

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Hello

I've just been diagnosed with invasive ductal cancer grade 3 triple negative I'm so scared is anyone going through the same? 

  • Hi VW good to hear from you .  I am going today but dreading it .  I don’t think there is an app .  I would be happy to set up a what’s app group if anyone interested .  I wish now we had contact details for Claud as I’m worried for her .   Good that you have the first chemo done .  That one is always the worst xxx

  • Wave tone1 glad you’ve had your first chemo , one down ! X

    No I don’t have another tumour as far as I know ! My tumour is more a mass and a good bit over 10cm .I have spots on my liver that need investigating further too , mri Wednesday 

    The plan was /is to have a full mastectomy with axillary clearance but after CT ( I’m assuming it showed the actual extent ) the surgeon wanted me to have neo adjuvant chemo first . I flippin hope to get a plan a get on with it tomorrow 

    Hope someone can answer your sex question , I mean , for your friend Wink 

    love and hugs 

    L xx

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Harleybear

    If you set up a what's app group would love too join x good luck today xx

  • Morning Mel, yes it's lovely if we are lucky enough to live near the sea. We are in Southbourne which a a short hop away from Bournemouth and we have the sea and clifftop 5 mins walk from where we live....It is very relaxing and uplifting to watch the sea. Whereabouts are you.....

    Hugs to everyone today.....xxxx

  • Hi, I am in Anglesey, North Wales.  Very fortunate to be surrounded by sea and lovely beaches xx

  • Hi Ratty , I was born near south borne and most of my family still live in and around the area . Lovely part of the world xxx

  • Former Member
    Former Member in reply to Rattybaggins

    I'm just down the road in Poole!

    .mel28 very jealous. Love North Wales. 

    Happy for a WhatsApp group. 

  • Lovely coastline as well . Very envious xx

  • Former Member
    Former Member

    Morning All

    This chat does put a smile on my face all so supportive of each other. 

    The sex question my nurses told me to use condoms for whole time on chemo, that is last thing on my mind lol. 

    Harleybear my hair hasn't completely gone with PC it shreds a little.

    Good luck with appointments this week xx

  • Hey Bextor if you can send me your mobile number I can add you . Send via private message if you don’t want all seeing it . Xx