Hi, I’ve just been diagnosed with breast cancer, more tests to see what stage etc, they don’t seem to rush though ! I feel like crying one minute then being strong the next ! My daughter is 26 but we are very close, she is devastated, my hubby, not her dad, is trying but he is not good with emotions. It’s all the waiting it’s torture
Hi Jayliz
A very warm welcome to the forum. The waiting for results is truly tortuous, stuck in limbo land. Many of us here have felt so much better once we knew more about what we were dealing with and had a treatment plan in place. Keep posting here, I’ve found it a great place for support and shared experiences. Love and hugs, HFxx
From the day they told me I had breast cancer until my biopsy results came back, it took 45 days — and it was honestly the worst period of my life. But as soon as the diagnosis was confirmed, treatment started two weeks later. So don’t worry at all, and try to enjoy the time before treatment begins.”
It is a long and difficult wait. Be prepared for more waiting as the biopsies are unlikely to be the only tests done prior to a treatment plan.
The MDT need as much information as possible to give you the best possible care and the best possible outcome, unfortunately this takes time.
Try and lead your life the best you can, easier said than done I know, carry on doing what you enjoy, cry when you need to.
Hugs to you, my profile has details of my treatment timings if you are interested, tap on the green chair.
Thank you that is really helpful , you just want it done like now !! I’m 63 and found a lump in my neck , docs said it was nothing to worry about , did blood tests which showed my body was fighting and infection, another 3. Weeks another blood test , dr referred me to ENT 3 weeks ago , I’ve had a biopsy on my lump which shows breast cancer , passed to Breast team , just waiting for a phone call. Is it normal to think it’s spread with every ache or pain you get ! I’m feeling better today , 2 days after results , it’s just a shock and you feel for your family to xx
It is so normal, plenty of lovely supportive ladies on here with all different experiences.
My husband always says don't worry about what you can't change. Easier said than done but sound advice.
I'm a bit more hope for the best but prepare for the worst!
It's amazing what we can cope with, treatments are so much better, side effects well managed and there is life after diagnosis and treatment.
Wishing you all the best x
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