Hi everyone
I received the news two weeks ago that I have grade two lobular breast cancer. I feel I’m such limbo as I’m awaiting an appointment for a MRI scan. I feel like I’m ok one minutes then experiencing emotions of frustration then upset. Anyone else experienced these emotions?? If so how do you handle them??
Hi, you're really not alone in this. I think up until a treatment plan is confirmed, it's a rollarcoaster of unknowns and I know I found it really hard, especially the frustration of waiting for scans and results. I tried really hard to keep myself busy and distracted, sorry but that's all I can advise. Best wishes
Hi Pauline,
The feeling you describe of being in limbo is very common, particularly just after diagnosis. I was diagnosed with lobular breast cancer over three years ago, and I remember feeling as though I was in a parallel universe. Once you have your treatment plan and a date for surgery, you should begin to feel more in control. It’s a horrible period initially after diagnosis. As Irishgirl16 mentioned keeping busy and distracted does help. Try to focus on activities you enjoy.
Take care of yourself.
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