Hi
I have had a-recent triple positive diagnosis, a clear post op result in lymph and breast. ~ has anyone else battled with the juxtaposition that being ‘cancer clear’ and then being told you need all that treatment a total nightmare ? I feel like I’m going crazy ! Did anyone consider not having chemotherapy etc ?
Hi I was diagnosed with Triple Negative in May this year, met with oncologist in June and it was suggested that I have 6 months chemo, lumpectomy then radiotherapy. I refused the chemo and asked what else could be done. She was really lovely and said lumpectomy followed by radiotherapy which I agreed to.
i asked why that had not been put to me as an option. She said it was down to stats. Chemo, lumpectomy followed by radiotherapy which, if it worked would give me an 87% chance of surviving 10 years. Lumpectomy followed by radiotherapy which, if it worked would give me a 76% chance of surviving 10 years, so obviously they go for the one that gives you more of a chance.
i made the decision to just have lumpectomy, which I had on 4 July, then radiotherapy which I had 9 treatments, Monday - Friday 1/9-5/9 whole breast, then Monday to Thursday 8/9-11/9 targeted at tumour site. ( there was no spread to lymph nodes)
i found the lumpectomy easy, was driving 2 days later, showering, washing/drying hair no issues.
The radiotherapy was not a huge problem, bit fatigued, very hot boob ( it still is hot) nothing else.
Was it the right decision? It was for me and I do think it’s a personal choice and I was so lucky to have full support from family and friends. There have only been a couple of adverse reactions from people who think I should have gone for the option with better odds.
I feel great at the moment and they don’t want to see me for a year as long as I feel ok.
The decision has to be yours and everyone is different and not all treatment suits everyone.
i wish you lots of luck and hope you make a decision for you
big hugs
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