Hey
I am new to this forum. Just getting my head round it all!
Had a lumpectomy and grateful there is nothing in the lymph nodes.
Starting chemo in 3 weeks.
Apart from being very up and down emotionally, I am finding that all I can think about is my hair as I approach my first chemo -
To have a cold cap or not to have a cold cap?
Hair appointment tomorrow - to have my shoulder length hair cut spiky short, so any hair loss is not so drastic?
To leave it or shave it if it all starts falling out?
To wig or not to wig? That is the questions - and where on earth do you buy a wig?!!!
Big sigh..... Why am I so focussed on my hair?
Maybe I can hide my emotions with people I know and pretend, but I can't hide a wig or baldy patch.
Even bigger sigh......
Many people lose their hair BUT not everyone does. So I wouldn’t jump the gun.
I couldn’t cold cap and my (very thick) hair started to fall out in serious volume at about week 5 of 12 weeks on Paclitaxel
I bought tons on scarves, various hats and a wig. And the only things I ever wore were a couple of cashmere beanies which I needed to keep my head warm.
I had it cut pretty short when it started to get stringy, and then shaved to a couple of mm when even that started to look grotty. It was oddly empowering. I went all sorts of places with no head covering and it just felt like the best option
However, I think this is possibly the topic on which there is the greatest range of different reactions and emotions.
So my advice is probably to wait and see - how it impacts your hair and how you feel.
Good luck - you’ll be through the treatment before you know it
x
Hi
There was no cold cap at my trust so it wasn’t a choice for me. My hair began to fall out about 12 days after my first EC. I had naturally curly thick hair. I went ahead and had it shaved off. It began to grow back slowly before my last chemo, docetaxel, which was in December last year. I was given a voucher for a wig to use at a wig salon not too far away. The voucher covered the entire cost. I bought beanie hats, turbans and scarves. I wore my wig with a baseball cap if I was out shopping etc. I got through it. I have pretty much a full head of hair now, a bit thinner on top, but it’s still coming through. I realise now just how much it did affect me mentally. It is hard, and some are lucky with a cold cap, but it isn’t forever.
Thanks for the hair tips. I'm leaning towards soft beanies, but like the idea of beanie on top of a wig! I'll wait and see what happens.
Thanks for sharing.
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